Some People Cause A Problem, And Want Everybody Else, Involved In It

@TLilly12 (1230)
United States
April 12, 2013 1:39pm CST
My son called me about his girl friend, talking about she is weak, and she took some medication and he want my niece, to come to her house and get her, because he can't be there right now, my son cause all these problems, now he want every one to help him out I am not getting involved, with all this drama he has caused he will have to deal with it himself.
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@alpha9180 (301)
• Malaysia
15 Apr 13
As parent, we should maintain good relationship with children especially to their friends. Perhaps your son needs your help and moral support and you can positively encourage him to face the reality, do respect and ask your niece to accompany him. He might have his reasons by so doing.
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@emily7339 (1339)
• Malaysia
13 Apr 13
If they are grown up adult, they should be responsible for their life . Others could help them if they are able but not all the time. If otherwise, he will never learn and will always be very dependent
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@TLilly12 (1230)
• United States
13 Apr 13
these are grown adults, and I refuse to get involved, with a lot of drama, I have my own life to live, and that I what I am going to do, I am not going to take on problems of other people.
• United States
12 Apr 13
I'm sorry he's a problem causer and you don't want to be involved in his drama. You're his parent though. He probably put trust in you to help him.
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@TLilly12 (1230)
• United States
13 Apr 13
My son caused his own problems, all the time so there is nothing, i can do to help him, I have told him over and over again, what not to do and he goes and, do it any way so there is nothing, I can do for him any more.
@velvet53 (17297)
• Palisade, Colorado
25 Apr 13
I wouldn't want to get involved either. I have seen how my sons are and I feel a lot of their problems they have brought on. It isn't always them that starts it and I can sure tell the difference. Big boys need to learn to solve their own problems.
@KrauseHome (35533)
• United States
23 Apr 13
I see it all the time, especially where I work. There will always be people who like drama and not happy unless everyone else around them can be involved with it too.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
My in laws have a favorite grandson. ANd even if this grandson would be the worst kid among their grandchildren, they treat him very special. The funny and irritating thing is , when this kid does something bad, my in laws would not just stop at scolding this boy, but they would call me up and tell me that it was probably the influence of my son that their favorite grandchild have made something wrong. ABSURD! How can their favorite grandson be envious of my son when my son barely has money to out with friends, while my mother in law would always give money to the other boy all the time?!