Merriege Vs. Living Relationship

April 13, 2013 3:43pm CST
What do you think about Living relationship, Is it good or bad as todays we can see that various people love to live in living relationship and they do not prefer marry, they do marry but after a long time. What all you think about this. Is Merriage is a good option or relationship is o.k. I would prefer merriage becuase i think that after merriege our relations become more strong and we can enjoy a happy life....
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@grvdubey11 (1882)
• India
14 Apr 13
Its not that one practice is good and other is bad.If partners love and trust each other and does not believe in institution of marriage then its nothing wrong to be in live in relationship.While some people feel more secure in institution of marriage so they go for it.Its all about choice , both systems are good in my opinion.Best wishes.
14 Apr 13
Yes grvdubey11 i am totally agree with you its all about choice what we think what we not and how we want to live, I also hope that it is not bad to be in live in relationship but if we want to feel more secure then we need to marry and i think only reason behind to stay in live in relationship is that we do not trust to eachother and do not love to each other and we run from our responsibilities otherwise when someone can be live happy in live in relationship they why not with marriage to each other...
• United States
14 Apr 13
I would not marry a man just so I oculd live with im. not saying that is what you mean either. I feel for me to get to know a man better we need ot live together. I am not ever going to marry a man whom I don't know to be clean or not.
14 Apr 13
Yes you are right i agree but i see the married couple who did not know to each other before their marry but after merriege there are lot of love between them and they are spending a beautiful amazing life and i see some persons who loved to each other before merry and after merry they fight a lot and not happy with their life so i think it does not matter that you know to each other before merry or not but the metter is that after merry how much responsible you are for your family and your future and how much care and love you give to each other...
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
Your idea about marriage is really great, people who prefer live-in relationship is not bad also, maybe they are not prepared to get married though they love each other, or maybe they are not financially stable yet to plan for a wedding, the only difference of both is that, live-in relationship has no legal basis because it no supporting documents, they are just living together in one roof as family, your wife is not legally your wife unless you marry her or you had a civil wedding, the only problem in live-in relationship is the word "legal", but the love between you and your partner is just the same no matter its live-in or married.
14 Apr 13
Yes jonastabuena i am totally agree with you and would like to say that it is good to spend the life in live in relationship in comparison of a merry where two people do not love to each other and there life spell because of some misshappening, Even live in relationship is not valid everywhere and people use to see them with different eyes but what is the benefit of that merry where husband and wife can not even stay under one roof...
@MoonGypsy (4613)
• United States
13 Apr 13
marriage is nothing but a legal piece of paper. anyone over 18 years of age, here can have one. you don't even have to know each other. i think how long the relationship will last doesn't depend on that piece of paper. it depends on the two people. it just religious to think other wise.
14 Apr 13
No it is not a legal piece of paper it is something In which two people take oath to do everything to each other, It is the love between two people and if they merry then they should be faithful for each other and they should love to each other otherwise if they can not do the same then they should not merry to eachother.