how is your partner thinking of you using mylot??

@scubapro (1058)
Gifu, Japan
April 14, 2013 12:16am CST
is your partner ok with you because of you are using mylot,i mean there is nothing wrong being here but is he-she jealous sometimes?? because i have a jealous wife,she always check my discussions and responses she also wants to join mylot to be with me here.of course she can,i feel happy about her. i really love here and share my problems and experiences with people. so for me there musnt be anything to be angry or jealous here. how about your partner? does she-he knows that you are here? what is her-his thinking and are they jealous too somtimes? are you sharing mylot experiences with your partner?
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15 responses
@mysdianait (63977)
• Italy
14 Apr 13
Ah! One plus one makes two! Welcome back! I don't have anyone who could possibly be jealous of me being here (or anywhere else for that matter ) When I see someone here who has a jealous partner, it makes me sad and I think that there must be something like a lack of trust on their relationship. In thatcase I think it would be a good idea for both partners to be here so that they could then see that there is absolutely nothing to be jealous of here. It is a fun place and a distraction for offline stuff. You are still having this problem with your wife after all this time?
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
yeah but i offered her to be here,so after she came here,i can feel peaceful. because she can understand there is nothing to be jealous here.peace
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@mysdianait (63977)
• Italy
14 Apr 13
Explain to her that we are one big huge family here and that we get paid for sharing our problems and having fun. It is not a dating site and there is absolutely no reason at all for her to think otherwise. She can join in and have fun too. We will welcome her as soon as she joins
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
i am sure you will welcome her,because you are nice to many people here. i can feel your support,thanks always mysdianait
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@Kementari (138)
• Canada
14 Apr 13
My partner actually encourages me to use Mylot, rather than getting jealous he views it as another way that I like to earn money on-line. My partner works two full time jobs in order to pay our bills, and I have asked him many times if he wants me to go out and get a full time job, and I have been quite willing to do so... as he is tired all the time. However, he says that he likes to see me happy and enjoying what I do, and he knows that I enjoy working on-line, even if it is not a ton of money... He wants me to be happy, so when I tell him about the discussions on mylot that I am involved in he is happy to listen and encourages me to respond even more-so. He is not a jealous person at all. Now if it were the other way around, I am more of the jealous type, but I wouldn't be looking at his discussions or anything, if he wants to tell me what he is talking about then that is great, sharing and communication are key aspects of relationships... but I wouldn't go crazy over it. We all have things we like to do and this is one of mine, just like he likes to play on the Xbox... :)
@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
15 Apr 13
xbox ? heheh i love it too,i also like playing playstation. i can understand him, actually he encourages you about mylot,its just perfect peace
14 Apr 13
Hi,MyLot is not really the kind of thing my girlfriend is interested in as she opts to use Facebook and although I would call myself a jealous when it comes to her I have never gotten to the point where I would check her Facebook for messages and I do not think she would check my stuff here on Facebook. It is very strange that we don't as we are both very Jealous in every other aspect.
@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
you respect eachother and its just great peace
@dismalgrin (2470)
• United States
14 Apr 13
If he is sitting next to me he likes to read over my shoulder. I don't think he is jealous, just curious what I'm spending so much time doing online! If there is a conversation I don't think he should really be a part of I take care of it on my cell phone. For my cell phone posts they don't get answered as much.
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
15 Apr 13
what a lovely couple
@emily7339 (1340)
• Malaysia
14 Apr 13
Well, trust is utmost important in the husband and wife relationship. I am glad that I have the liberty to come here whenever I want and my hubby has no objection . It is better for me to come here than to have my brain remain idle . At least he is glad that I could spend my spare time more fruitfully and keeps my mind active most of the time .
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
you have a supportive partner and understandable,also trust you. you are really lucky,i envy you peace
@dagami (1163)
• Rome, Italy
14 Apr 13
my husband teases me. he laughs when i get excited and tell him i earned 50 cents the day before. "just 50 cents???", he'd ask. "that's a small amount for hours of work." but he knows i enjoy doing this and most of the times he doesn't mind. there are also times when the posts make me laugh out loud and i share the joke with him. he only asks me to stop when it is already time to eat and i'm still glued to my computer.
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
we just write and read here also have fun,so for this fun we also get money even its not so big amount. i think he should envy you peace
• United States
14 Apr 13
Randy knows I am on here and he is not jealous at all. He knows that I talk to both men and women on here and he is okay with it because he trusts me. He also knows that of someone makes me feel uncomfortable and starts to harass me then I would let him know (I know that will not happen in here because we all care about each other). Randy and I do share emails when they come from the family, but we never check each others mail. The only instance when randy was upset was when we were engaged to be married. What had happened was that this guy admitted that he wanted to get back with me because I was with someone else. I told this guy to please stop sending me emails and stop contacting me, well the guy would not leave me alone. It had gotten so bad that I had to tell Randy and randy sent a message saying leave my fiance alone. Normally, I would have handled this on my own, but the guy would not take a hint.
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
yeah sometimes some bad people can appear and make bad things,he supported you and fight for you lovely peace
@Kmz059 (662)
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
Well my husband did not know about it. LOL But he can see me opening this site, but he is not wondering what is this site all about. In fact there is nothing to be jealous.
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
agree there is nothing to be jealous but some people do peace
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@Porcospino (16435)
• Denmark
14 Apr 13
My husband is very jealous and he also jealous at my online activitity. Some time ago we had a discussion about Mylot. He wanted me remove every man from my friend list and he asked me to promise him that I would never respond to discussions started by men. I told him that I have both male and female friends and that it will remain that way. I don't intend to remove the men from my friend list and I don't intend to avoid discussions started by men. He has nothing to worry about, I only talk to the male members of Mylot as a friend and most of my friends know that I am already married. Sometimes my husband asks me what I am writing about, and I tell him the topics of the discussions that I start. I have nothing to hide and if he wants to read the things that I write it is not a problem at all.
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
actually its a big jealousy there its good because it means he really loves you and doesnt wanna loose but its little bit strict. i think if you show your discussions ,there will be no problem,but little bit annoying. i wish he can trust you more peace
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@Bhebelen14 (4561)
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
Hi scubapro, my husband does not get jealous when I am using mylot because he has also account here and more active than me. We both enjoying participating here were we can learn lots of things, communicate with friends and earn money at the same time. He is the one who encourage me to join to this site to improve my english and to have something to do when I am alone at home instead of watching TV or sleeping.
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
you both are here,its really lovely and nice. i envy you peace
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@dainy1313 (2354)
• Leon, Mexico
14 Apr 13
Hello Scubapro I hope that you are fine. Yes my husband gets a little bit jealous about mylot. I´ve been here 5 years. I try him to get involved when his near. Sometimes I share with him the happiness of some friend or I ask him for an advice. He comes sometimes and checks my trends. I don´t worry too much because I´m peace of mind and peace of heart. Blessings Scubapro... dainy
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@scubapro (1058)
• Gifu, Japan
14 Apr 13
he is jealous on you?? lovely ,it means he loves you much. i have same problem i think thanks for the response,peace
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14 Apr 13
Mylot is a fun site to exercise to share ideas and also to ask questions it will be better to share mylot to anyone and expand the community to have more shuffle ideas and everyone is welcome here
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@savak03 (6686)
• United States
14 Oct 15
I don't have anyone to be be jealous of any of my activity but I joined mylot back before my husband passed away but he was not jealous either. He was paralyzed from the neck down so I would post discussions and read them to him as well as the responses I would get. It helped make him feel a part of my life. He also had some great ideas for comments and discussions so I would most of the time run what I was going to say by him because he had a way with words that I did not have. Now that he is gone I find that I am doing the same thing with my daughter. She inherited her daddy's way with words so even though she has no interest in being here herself she experiences this community vicariously through me.
@ARIES1973 (9437)
• Legaspi, Philippines
15 Apr 13
I don't have any problem with my husband as far as myLot is concerned. He considered it and all of my online activities as my job. Although staying in front of the computer most of the time is one thing that concerns him. Have a nice day!
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
My husband supports me all the way being here.. he knows that aside from earning here on mylot I am here because I want to practice my english skills and my typing as well.. he just let me do whatever I want here.. besides I also share to him about what I have read in here and if I learned something new..