Have you ever had someone be rude to you on mylot?

@o2bnocn (2895)
United States
April 17, 2013 1:30pm CST
I was just thinking that the majority of people here are very friendly. I don't think I have ever had a person be rude to me in a discussion. I have had people disagree with me but not be rude. Disagreeing with me is different than being rude. I don't know if My lot would even allow a user to rude to another person. What are your thoughts?
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@namiya (1599)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
There was one when I was still new here. I responded to her topic and it seems that we had a difference of views and I was offended when she commented back for she pointed out that I am responding without fully understanding the topic. That was however one of the deleted discussions that I have responded.
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
18 Apr 13
Yeah I think that most of the rude comments get deleted. Luckily there are not many rude people here.
@namiya (1599)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
And this is one reason why I enjoy mylot, it generally has a friendly and sharing atmosphere.
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@lampar (7597)
• United States
17 Apr 13
I had a rude Aussie old punk on my back some of the time during mylotting, because i disagree with his discussion calling USA as a country that is practicing gender discrimination on women /girl in the political and economy arena, it infuriated him after i forwarded the facts in my argument for my disagreement on his claims, so the name calling began after that, he constantly called me a sexist, moron; racist, stupid etc... whenever opportunity arise. It happened couple of months ago, that is probably the only one i known of in my several years of myzzzzzlotting here. Overall, many mylotters are friendly and reasonable people, the Rudish member only make up of a few here, may around 1%-2% of the total members.
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
17 Apr 13
Yeah I agree that many mylotters are friendly and reasonable. I'm sorry someone was rude to you. Even though they disagree, that is no reason to be rude. I am just glad that everyone is so friendly and I'm glad to have found this site.
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@lampar (7597)
• United States
18 Apr 13
Don't need to apologize, it is not your fault. There is always few out there want to pick fight instead of discuss whenever you don't agree with them, it is quite natural during Mylotting, once a while a troll will go around trying to provoke other and acted belligerently, i will just overlook it and forgave him. I don't like to be rude to anyone even though i don't agree with him/her, it is no need to be rude and provocative upon differ in opinion, i prefer to be civilized and react in a calm manner during mylotting, that is just the way i am. it is always wrong to be rude to another member here.
@Amemi432 (54)
• India
18 Apr 13
I am still very new here and only participated in a few discussions. But I read many discussions(old and new). So far I didn't find anyone being rude to another in mylot. I know there might be someone out there, but the number of rude people here in mylot seems way lower than any other social website I visited so far. And many senior mylotters are always ready to help newbies in understanding mylot better. This friendly atmosphere makes it easier to post here. I am very happy that I found mylot.
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
18 Apr 13
I think it is one of the best social networking websites, and one of the best websites to make money. People are so friendly and willing to help others. I'm glad you joined.
@sishy7 (27606)
• Australia
18 Apr 13
There are much more nice and friendly members here that whenever a rude user come along he/she does not usually stay long here anyway...
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
18 Apr 13
That is true. I have hardly ever come across any rude members.
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@ARIES1973 (9539)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Apr 13
I never experience this thing even at the start. I make sure to read the guidelines when I've learned that we can earn from participating in the discussion. I don't ask unnecessary questions. I make sure that if I have question, I find the answer by reading the FAQs or other discussions using the search engine. Most of the time, other members mistakenly referred an answer to a query as mean because they got reply from old members in an offensive manner. I came across several discussions like this. Have a nice day!
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
18 Apr 13
Yes I read the FAQ and the guidelines when I first joined also. I don't even remember what it says because it was so long ago. Thanks for your response.
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
18 Apr 13
I have come across rude comments but not often its very rare on mylot . Disagree with you is not being rude its a open room for discussion and that is what a discussion is all about, different argument . Whenever I come across rude people I normally ignore them and mylot would also remove the comment .
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
18 Apr 13
I agree with you having a disagreement is different than being rude. I usually ignore anyone that is rude, but I haven't come across many people that are rude on here!
@Raine38 (9193)
• United States
17 Apr 13
Not really rude, but a bit mean. Just because I have a different opinion than him/her. I was given a negative marking and that made my level dropped. At first it really irritated me, but then I thought, he/she is just one of the many nice mylotters in here and I will not let one rotten person ruin the entire experience for me.
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
18 Apr 13
That is a good attitude. You shouldn't let that one little instance ruin your experience. I think that is a little mean to give you a negative rating. I can understand if he disagreed. We all have disagreements. No one is going to agree with everyone else on everything, but that is no reason to start any type of trouble. Thanks for your response.
@TLilly12 (1230)
• United States
17 Apr 13
Yes I have had a Myloter be rude to me, here in Mylot it was 2 Mylotters, and changed my account because of them, but I won't be doing that any more, I will stand my ground no matter if any one, be rude to me or not.
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
18 Apr 13
that is a good attitude to have. You might be able to report them depending on the situation and what they said. I wouldn't change your account anymore.
• United States
17 Apr 13
I have never had anybody be rude to me on mylot. I have only been on mylot for about 2 months now so I am a new member of the mylot program.
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
17 Apr 13
I have been on for years now and I can tell you there are many friendly people!
• United States
17 Apr 13
When I first got here, there was one person who was being rude to me. I didnt reply to his/her post, I reported him/her instead lol. Then her/his post got deleted after that ^_^
@o2bnocn (2895)
• United States
17 Apr 13
I think that is a very wise decision.
@shorty08322 (1270)
• United States
18 Apr 13
no but getting smart yea but out of rude no
@mariaperalta (19094)
• Mexico
18 Apr 13
Well if everyone here was all polite and goody , goody.. the site would be no fun at all.
@Deepak2J (1179)
• Bhubaneswar, India
18 Apr 13
no one has been ever rude to me. thanks