What can i do?

United States
April 18, 2013 11:49am CST
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. I quit my job and gave up my apt. in Colorado to move here to MN to be with him. Now I find out he's online with all these women, and the funny thing is HE'S accusing me the whole time of cheating on HIM!!! I am really heart broken and have to move back to Colorado, i REALLY need a friend right now.
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7 responses
25 Apr 13
I understand. You need to reflect from where it started until it was gone, for you to move on and decide a plan for yourself without him anymore. You gave up your career for him. It is too much because it's not worth it and you don't deserve to be treated like that. You need a friend because you want to say/shout all the pain you feel right now. But, I would say that, friends can be found everywhere but only yourself can fix your own problem/s. They're there just to cheer you up. Be strong, girl!
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• United States
23 May 13
It's All Lies
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
25 Apr 13
You gave up all that to be with a jerk. Now you need to go back to Colorado. Men! I feel so bad for you because moving first of all is not fun. Then to find out something like this when you already moved. When a guy is accusing you of cheating its usually the guy who is doing the cheating. That is the biggest clue. If you comfront them with this knowledge they will denied it completely.. Saying you are crazy and don't know what you are talking about. I went through it and got rid of him years ago. It was the best thing I did for myself. You will be ok just do what you need to do to get back on your feet and forget about him. He is not worth the tears falling down your cheeks. Be strong and remember everything happens for a reason. Good luck and God Bless!
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• United States
23 May 13
She's a Lier. She's the Cheeter. Pam Dunn
18 Apr 13
tsk tsk tsk you cant stick to hurt memories that will only cost you pain. Put things together. Start hanging out with your friends, think of the things you want to do that you cant do before, switch your attention to something else that will make you realize that you are far great without a damn azz ha ha just to cheer u up, and your still lucky to find it out early and never too late to hunt aga in for a better fish out there!
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• Philippines
23 Apr 13
Hello. What can I say? Your ex is a bad guy. I know it hurts. Having to break up with him is devastating. But, I think it's for your own good. He accuses you of cheating because he is guilty. No one deserves to be treated like that. Being in a relationship means you're committed to each other. You are only for each other. And with the span of 6 months, he's proven himself not worth of any commitment. Do not be sad or depressed. It's a good thing that you learned of his wrongdoings earlier. Pick yourself up. You only lost 6 months of your life, you can live better now. Treat your past relationship with him as a stepping stone and an experience. You didn't lose anything. :)
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• United States
23 May 13
She's a Lier and the CHEETER
@Mozimozi (17)
18 Apr 13
Hei dunnpromo...how are you today??? When you heart is so feel great up, you must move on for this situation..
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• United States
23 May 13
Pam Dunn is a Lier
@Jyiou7 (83)
• Malaysia
19 Apr 13
Hey there dunnpromo, you know what, breakups DO hurt a whole lot. This hurt all comes from the emotional attachment that we had with the person during the "better times". And when this person breaks up or cheats, it is this attachment that gives birth to the heartbreak and soreness in our hearts. What you gotta do now is to break away from that attachment, and start to pick your own self up. Discover yourself again, know who you are as an individual, don't see yourself as another half of a couple, see yourself as a person. Go do the things before you entered the relationship that satisfied you, and you alone. :) If he's already starting to shift his focus to other women, then he's, truthfully, not worth it. He doesn't have the attachment as deep as yours. Don't go back for him, or his heart. Go and take care of your own now, and you will arise a stronger person. :)
• United States
23 May 13
No Advice is good advice unless You know both sides of the Story My Friend. Tom
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
25 Apr 13
Yes it would be best for you to move back to Colorado and be around your family and friends. This person obviously doesn't care enough about you because he is cheating. And you did all those things to be with him.
• United States
23 May 13
She Lost Her Apt due to Her Last BoyFriend. I saved her butt by Moving Her Her just so She Could CHEET on me.