How can we label anybody as best friend
April 20, 2013 1:10am CST
Whe we have many friends, how can we label one particular friend as 'best'? Is it not patriality?
20 Apr 13
YEah, i guess you can say that.. since we have never met all our future friends- so we cannot be sure. Even i am careful on who to call my best friend.. I really get to know them for a long time before naming them my BFF. Maybe it'll take years and i wil be really comfortable with him or her- tell her all my secretes.. and in bad times , she should be there for me..
20 Apr 13
According to Merriam Webster,if you refer the word best to a person, it means that, that person has a unique characteristics compare to any other. For me, I can say that a person is my best friend if I can trust him/her. I can tell all my secrets and I am rest assured that it's only in between the two of us. A person that will be your friend in good or in bad times, will be at your side at your worst. I am very thankful that I have good friends that is always with my no matter what happened I have tested them especially when I experienced a big problem in the past. They didn't left me behind during those times, but instead, they helped me to cover up from it. Nowadays, it is hard to find a best friend, sometimes, they just make friends with you because they need something and once they get it, they will just dump you. So i guess the moral is, before you trust someone and consider them as a friend you need to test them first, try just to be a normal friend but not trust them too much. You might regret it at the end.