am i a user?
April 20, 2013 3:07pm CST
i'm working on a project right now and i basically need people. i'm now trying to contact friends i haven't seen in more than 14 years. if i'd approach them for this project, am i a user?
22 Apr 13
I don't think so. Well, if they truly are your friends then I don't think they will think that you are user. But if they are just some familiar faces you have seen for just a couple of times, then probably you can say you are using them for that purpose. What really matters is your intention. If you really need help, it's not bad to ask your friends even if you haven't really have any contact for a long time. And this will be a good way to reunite with them.
22 Apr 13
thanks, lloyd. we're classmates and we've really made wonderful friendship though it was suddenly cut because i had been busy with my life. i sincerely want to be reunited with them aside from my project. well, i wish it will get to them like you do.
20 Apr 13
It really depends on delivery. If you are demanding that is using. However even those that we have not seen for a long time might appreciate hearing from you. This comes with a price! If you are willing to let your request go unanswered and not pressure then that is fine but you need to something additional I think. Since they are friends from long ago, even if they turn down your request you should really devote some time to establish a friendship once [u][/u]again?
21 Apr 13
everything you said i've taken for consideration. actually i've thought about them before i posted here. i don't really want them to think that i contacted them just for the sake of the project. i want them to feel genuinely missed by me. if they would turn down my offer, it's okay with me. i really want to have open communication with them.