I want a Baby girl

@Kmz059 (652)
Philippines
April 21, 2013 5:34am CST
I want a second baby but it is not yet the time to have a baby,, I have a lot things to accomplish before having a baby again, first is to finish my studies and look dor a stable job. Honestly I envy those you have a new born babay, that they just sleep the whole day and wake up the whole night, cry when they are hungry. Maybe when my son reaches the age 5 that is the time that I will get pregnant.
12 responses
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
i love babies but as of now, like you - i am not capable of having one even we have different reasons why. first is that i am not married yet and like you i just graduated in college and i need to take a board to be an eligible employer in public schools if been lucky enough. i do not want a job for now coz i need to concentrate on my review. whew! but see, i am here facing the laptop and browsing the net. but i am not that desperate, i know God has a plan for me. if He wants me to bear one even of my age, it is not a hindrance. when i have one, i want it a girl. but whatever, as long as the baby is healthy and cute :) thanks
• Singapore
22 Apr 13
This sounds great! But you may want to adjust your expectations on the specific gender of the baby to avoid disappointment:) Same with my family, my mum wanted a girl too, they had planned to have just 2 children but after 2 baby boys she decided to try a 3rd time...only to have another son:)
@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 13
I can feel how you feel about a new baby. Babies are cute and funny. They make their mothers happy. I remember my wife being busy with her kids when they were still small. She sang songs for her beloved babies. You don't have to wait till your son reaches the age of 5 just to have another baby.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
It is really hard to have more kids especially during these times. Much better if you already have a very stable job prior to raising another child. I have 4 boys, not one of them planned, although I am happy that they are all healthy, still there would be times that I would be crying for not being able to provide them what they need.
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
Good interval. Giving birth put a lot of stress , physically, mentally and financially. With today's economy, we really need to take it slow in reproduction. I know it nice to have a child, but we should be prepared.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
My husband and I also wished for a baby girl.. and like you now is not the right for us to have an another baby because my son is just turning two.. I also want to do a lot of things that I am not able to do now because I am taking care of my son.. but if we are bless with another child again I am gladly love it but maybe f we can still wait I want a baby again fo next five years..
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
My eldest is a girl and she's now 19 years old and two sons aged 17 and 14. I can't imagine how they grow this fast and missed their kiddie days. Yes, you need to wait for few years before having another baby and I wish you all the luck, hope it's a girl then.
@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
21 Apr 13
You don't really need to be stable to have a second baby. I'm talking from experience the time to have a better will never really be the right time. Well it cold be because I've had to unexpected pregnancy that I just go with the flow of life. Your meant to have a baby you are it'll help even when you don't want to. Maybe you will have a girl maybe you won't. I wanted to wait till my daughter was 5 to have my second baby but I only made it till she was 10 month before getting pregnant.
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
21 Apr 13
have you heard of the ancient chinese birth chart? it is said that this is more than 99% accurate. if you want to have a baby girl the next time, try consulting this calendar so you can have an idea when it is possible that you will conceive a girl.
@emily7339 (1337)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 13
Yeah, it is good to have a companion for your son as well so they could grow up together . However, having children is easy but to raise them needs a lot of effort and time. So, it is good that you have a proper planning so that you could cope well in time to come
@cgalavia (1436)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
Hi Kmz, We crave for the same thing.A baby girl but I think this will be soon and like you have planned also to get pregnant again when my baby is already five.I like to have one because i know we will have the same interest,we'll have a good vibes and my family will be a lot more of fun.
• Sri Lanka
21 Apr 13
woow that cooool....i not Mary yet but my hope make sweet family for my life i rally like make good family life ..