When everything goes wrong..

@cttolledo (2337)
Batangas, Philippines
April 23, 2013 8:59am CST
Hi mylotters! In life, when everything goes wrong.. who is the first person comes in your mind to seek help and comfort? Is it your mother who are always there, and will understands you no matter what...? Is it your sister who are close to you? your bestfriend? or your boyfriend?
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@marguicha (81697)
• Chile
24 Apr 13
I have some friends, a couple, who have been for years more than family. They are always there for me and they know that they can count with me too. I don`t like to place many extra burdens in my daughters lives because they still have children and money worries. So it is my adopted family
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@cttolledo (2337)
• Batangas, Philippines
24 Apr 13
Wow.. it only proves that family is not only by blood.. Nice to know that you have them and treat them as your adopted family.. i think they love you because you love them too...
@sorima24 (77)
• Philippines
23 Apr 13
Actually,if i have a problem i will face it own my own i never tell to my mother or anyone.I believe in myself that i can do it.
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@cttolledo (2337)
• Batangas, Philippines
24 Apr 13
I think it more easier if you have share your problems to someone.. maybe your fried or other member of your family...
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@emily7339 (1340)
• Malaysia
23 Apr 13
Whenever things go wrong in my life....no one could help me except God and myself . I find a lot of comfort after commune with my Almighty God. I learn to cast all my care to Him for I trusted Him to bear my burden. I felt relieved after I confide in Him
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@cttolledo (2337)
• Batangas, Philippines
24 Apr 13
That's true..there is released of pain through prayers..God is really there when we need him, we might not see him but we can feel that as if someone are helping us to carry our problems..
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@Deepak2J (1180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
24 Apr 13
Everything never goes wrong. There is always something in life. To be honest, I am not that open to my parents or anyone due to my shyness. My first stop is to god and asks for help.
@cttolledo (2337)
• Batangas, Philippines
24 Apr 13
Sometimes we have problems that is hard to tell or divulge to anyone even to our mother.. But I thibk it is normal.. Yah.. that is true, God is always there for us.. we can share our problems through prayer..
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
I am sure that most people would probably answer that their mother is the first person that would come to their minds. But with me, well, I have not really been used to troubling my mom with my issues unless my husband tell her, I would just be either keeping things to myself or just call my sister in law.
@cttolledo (2337)
• Batangas, Philippines
24 Apr 13
I can relate with you. I want to share my problems to my mom but I opt not to tell her because I don not want to involve my mom to my issues in life, I want her to relax in her life without bothering anything about her children in the first place we are now matured people and we can now solved our own problems in our own way.. So instead of my mom I usually share my problems with my boyfriend.. he is a good listener too..
@joizee (502)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
Hi there! When I have personal issues I confide with my husband. He's the only one I have immediately. But I also do tell my mother and best friend. I like to tell them all my problems because they're good listeners and they give different pieces of advice to me. I like it when I hear different opinions. It only means I am still in control of my life. They are present to show my different ways to be successful but it lies with my decisions and strategies. So usually, I tell it to my husband or mother first, then my best friend second. :)
@cttolledo (2337)
• Batangas, Philippines
24 Apr 13
Sharing you problem with others is a good source of solution to your problem...a piece of advice from them makes you more cautious and smarter in making decisions.. You are lucky to have those 3 people who are always there to listen when you have problems..Thanks for sharing...
@vathsala30 (3726)
• India
8 Dec 15
It depends upon the nature of the situation. If it is related to the family matters, i seek help from my mom. If it is related to the work related issue, i seek help from my siblings and if it is related to the personal issue, i will go to the best friend .
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
27 Apr 13
Hi, When everything goes wrong we want to share our feelings with our closed ones. By sharing the worries or sadness gets lessen. Sometimes I share my feelings with my friends and many times with my wife.
@Wendyzwt (49)
• Jingdezhen, China
25 Apr 13
Hi,friends.Well,when I facing something bad or meet some troubles,I wold like to solve it by myself.If itt's hard to do decisions or hard to deal with it,than I'd like to tell this to my BFF,they always give me some useful advice or give me a huge to console me.And when everything is calm,I'm going to talk about it with my family.I know,wahtever happens,my family will always be my strong support.