How do you consider a person as beautiful?

Philippines
April 25, 2013 8:41pm CST
I love looking at any beauty pageants. I felt im not that of beauty outside but good that I have inside,lol . Most of the people here in our country appreciates fair complexion skin. Sold out whitening products have gone too far for this reason. It is non surprising why many people here have faced facial problem for using cheap whitening products. They never realized what the problem it caused for using them. Many cheap whitening products have been disposed by any street vendors and even them dont care if they sold the fake ones as long as they can earn something from it. According to news is that mostly cheap whitening products being sold just in the street were highly mercury content and if being used ,it can be dangerous to ones health. Whats your idea with this? Getting fair complexioned skin can be the reason enough to be just beautiful? How do you consider a person as beautiful?
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• Philippines
26 Apr 13
First and foremost 1. Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder 2. What is beautiful is not always seen most of the times it is what is not seen 3. A woman of virtue by any standard is beautiful to see and gaze upon. 4/ a woman may be white and fair, sexy and fit but having no virtue would render her un worthy
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
26 Apr 13
I think mostly the beauty comes from the inside of a person.
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
That make sense. Inner beauty is greater than anything else as long as we are confident enough to be with ourselves . Truly the mentioned attributes of beauty mentioned above makes a person more meaningful and radiant. Searching for someone who is beautiful inside is like searching a treasure. According to some that in marriage , you are not living with someones phusical outlooks but living with the qualities he/she has.
• Philippines
26 Apr 13
For me i consider a person to be beautiful if he/she will be true to his/her self, self acceptance of who we are as a person is truly beautiful, physical beauty fades as we get older, attitude of a person can be change, but acceptance of yourself is a stable thing, accepting our fault and the limitations as a human is a true beauty.
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• Philippines
26 Apr 13
I think beauty is a package. It is the combination of physical looks plus the way you know about yourself. Physical appearance is not the final judgement of beauty . What counts most is the inner side and the qualities from within. Sometimes a person may look very beautiful physically but knowing that she/he lock of something inside of her/him which most poeple do admire most, still beauty may only just a compliment.
@emily7339 (1339)
• Malaysia
26 Apr 13
Yeah, majority likes to be fair complexion and may resort to cheaper whitening products which is of health risk. Some fairer people looks pale and unhealthy . It is better to be in good health than to apply whitening that ends up in trouble, unless the person could afford to buy reliable good product which is obviously more expensive. Natural beauty is stil the best!
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• Philippines
26 Apr 13
If in this case, yes I agree. Nice to be just in our own beauty if the result is going to be in trouble. I have search on net that nightingale's pooh can be very good to face but sad to say its costly.But the result is very good, skin looks fairer and reduces pores and skin becomes smooth. In this case we just need to be a wise consumer that we should give value to the quality of the product to avoid skin problems in th future..
@mammots (3271)
• Philippines
26 Apr 13
hello jonnagirl! its true that having a fair skin, a nice hair , and a beautiful face are what attracts most. heads turn when someone with these features "goes walking down the street". but when only the filthiest of all garbage are the only things that comes out of her mouth every time she opens it then she's the ugliest of all the ugly people in this world combined.
• France
26 Apr 13
I have to agree with your comment. It's so true. I've seen this girl and she looks so pretty and she takes nice pictures and posts them on fb. But then once you meet her in person and hears the way she talks then its like all that physical beauty means nothing. When I was younger I always thought beauty was only physical - but now that I'm older what's more beautiful is someone's personality, looks will always change. Using those bleaching or whitening creams is very harmful and it is true that people are attracted to more fair skin but people with brown-dark skin are just as beautiful. People really shouldn't be judged by how they look but since that's the first thing people see it happens. But once you're confident about yourself then what people say doesn't even matter. Never let it tear you down. Sorry I think I went into a lecture mode lol
@mammots (3271)
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
to be honest jonnagirl... i agree with your comment that a persons personality can be changed for the better but i totally disagree that a persons looks cannot anymore be altered for the better.
@mammots (3271)
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
its okay to give a lecture Anjii!!! actually what 'm saying is that the one thing that can make a person totally beautiful and attractive inside and out is intelligence or in a deeper sense ... a persons wisdom.
26 Apr 13
I live in midwest usa and most people here want to be tan. That comes with its own set of problems. Nice teeth really turn my head. I guess you could say a nice smile but its all about the teeth. Teeth should be very white, clean, and straight. A strong jaw line helps out too. I haven't seen too many guys with 6 pack abs that I would turn away. Muscular arms/shoulders is pretty hot too. Not too muscley though.
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
Hi max! As human we tend to fascinated to someone who is truly beautiful outside. But can you still find him fascinated after knowing that he is not that beautiful inside?Mostly relationship ended up for nothing if physical attributes of beauty is considered mostly. Do you agree with this?
@arpazia (191)
• United States
26 Apr 13
I have heard about that. I watched something on it, about people using fake or dangerous products to get light skin, some of them ended up with really blotchy pink skin:( so sad! I do think its kinda funny, people here go to great links to be bronze and visa versa. I am fair skin and its not considered pretty. pfft, oh well, at least im not hurting my skin! My idea of beauty changes all the time but I think if youre pretty on the inside its going to shine through and if youre ugly on the inside it will gnaw through and show on your face
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
Theres a saying that beauty is relative. it is that one person may look beautiful for you but may not be for others. But in fairness whether we like it or not ones physical outlook needs to be boosted . Especially if you are working in an office, you need to wear your face presentable in front of others. And truth is everyone loves beauty. But due with this , one may tend to use different products that will end up to trouble. Maybe we just have to be wise to learn from the mistake of other people that applying something on our face is risky. We should better double check if the product to buy can soothe our objective or not. Just to be wise enough in choosing stuff like this.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
26 Apr 13
In my opinion is good character and good mind is real beauty of person. Some people shows their fake expression about they have good character .
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
Real beauty needs to be searched for long. You cant know the inner aspect of a particular person if knowing him/her shortly. It needs time for us to know more about the person ideally. Sometimes we are judging someone in the wrong way but knowing her/him in due time makes sense .
@phoonk (344)
• India
10 Aug 15
To be very honest, beauty for me is my mother's smiling face. I think beauty is anything pleasing to the eye. And nothing can be more pleasing to me than my mother's smiling face. But if you ask me about being pretty, I think one doesn't need to be fair to be pretty. But, sharp facial features of perfect shape and size does make people pretty.