Is there an acceptable age to be a virgin?
@andrewbarclave (485)
Ireland
April 27, 2013 6:54am CST
I'll try keep this short but i'm 23 and a virgin, to me it feels like i should have lost it years ago but I just never got round to it. I have made a deal with myself that no matter what I will lose it this year, just can't take it anymore.
What are your thoughts on this, is there an age that you think people should lose it? I know the obvious answer would be that the perfect would be when the person is ready....but then again with guys we could pretty much lose it as soon as possible. I know this can be very different with girls though.
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@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
Hi ! like you worry more because up to now you are still virgin ! I guess you don't need to worry instead be proud that you are ! You keep your standard high and that is very admirable. Age is not a basis for longevity of Virginity but it is of moral standard. Most people give in this thing because of pressure but if you have high regard of it , you'll never be carried by those pressure but will stand by it and will be given to the man whom she will marry only.
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@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
27 Apr 13
I know, i'm sure it's gonna happen soon anyway :)
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@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
27 Apr 13
It was a couple of years ago anyway but now I don't want to be anymore and surprisingly I have not done anything like that before, even to myself.
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@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
28 Apr 13
Screw that, I ain't getting married for years and I can't wait that long :p
@habibti320 (925)
• United States
28 Apr 13
You can be a virgin as long as you like. I think that for guys and girls, it is better if their first time is with someone they are in a relationship with, someone special. The only danger I have had with virgins is that they can be come judgmental of some of us non-virgins...at that point, I wish they would just get laid.
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
28 Apr 13
I know that I definitely do not judge non-virgins, any virgins that do that are simply just jealous and probably don't deserve to get laid.
@sonusinghal34 (30)
• India
28 Apr 13
my self i am also virgin i have try lots of time to make relation i did not get perfect girl she can give me real love i do not want to west my virgin any in responce girls its god gift for a single one girl she is very lucky who will get my virgin and definetly i will give them my all lover for her,,,,,,,,we can not fixed the age to virgin its depends on situation and condition
if u do not want even then you have to done ,i just seen lots of movies and my friends life lots of example????
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
28 Apr 13
Thats fair enough and I would say plenty of people do want to save their seed for that one very special girl.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
28 Apr 13
As the whole issue of virginity is a no-brainer, I'm wondering why you are looking at it as negative, rather than as a positive condition. In the end,( even for the Female gender,) virginity means less than whether or not she has a drivers license. Who cares? (Your church will accuse you of adultery, and charge you for your sins) Relax, enjoy life, and let the rest of the world go by!
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
28 Apr 13
I'm looking at both sides of it, especially after everything people here have said and I also i'm not a religious person so I'm not afraid of that side of it.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 13
Oh well,I never knew if there is a certain or specific age regarding this matter.
(lol)
This depends on individual thinking, opinion and morality.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Apr 13
I don't know why that being a virgin should be a big deal with men at such age. It doesn't mean that when I guy reaches his 20's that he SHOULD lose it, right? If there was a choice, it is because you are waiting for the right time with the right person and not just wanting to gt laid on any woman who might just want to jump on you.
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
27 Apr 13
I didn't really realise that male virgins were getting more common but yeah I haven't rushed at all :)
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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27 Apr 13
Hey don't worry dude, You should be proud yourself and you should maintain your standard, I am 24 and still vigin and i am happy and feel proud in my self, there is no certain age to lose it but i think that minimum age should be 16 if you are ready to lose it
@andrewbarclave (485)
• Ireland
28 Apr 13
I think 16 is still pushing it. I would say 17 myself but yeah I just know i'm ready, I won't force it to happen though.
@nels1274 (1)
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27 Apr 13
I think that there's no specific age in losing your virginity. It really depends on yourself and the values on which you grew up in. There are different cultures and on our country virginity is valuable during my time. When I was still a teenager, at that time virginity is really valuable and as a catholic. It was taught that you should only lose it on your wedding night. I guess that principle doesn't apply now on this age. It should not impose any pressure on you. You'll feel if it's the right time with the right person as well.
