my chattered wife

China
April 28, 2013 10:16pm CST
before marriage, I felt quite free and I could do whatever I want. However, things has changed since I have married to a girl and now she is my wife. she always complained with everything that I did and it seemed as if everything I did was completely wrong. she chattered even with slight things, such as the gesture I sleplt and the even the gesture of my walking. oh, my god , sometimes I really can't bear . guys have you had this kind of experience , could you share with me and give some tips to solve this problem. thank you.
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12 responses
@phoonk (341)
• India
10 Aug 15
Please please talk to her and try to sort out the things; otherwise your relationship will really be hampered.
29 Apr 13
The last thing you need to do is talk to her. I feel this way about my husband all the time. The feeling is annoyed! Give her space, get out of her hair for awhile. It would also be great if you would help her out some like do the dishes or if you have kids at least takevthe kids out for a few hours so she can chill. She most likely feels like she is doing it all and then there is you all comfy in bed with a smug look on your face. I feel her pain. So help out or get out!
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 13
i have no experience like you but i know that sometimes you or people who have similar problem like you can`t bear it.. be patient..and pray for God..i do hope you can fix your problem soon
@Zer0Stats (1147)
• India
29 Apr 13
Lol...she's a nagging wife.She's trying to find all the possible faults in you.She needs to understand that it's not helping you out it's killing your relationship instead.You need to tell her that she needs to respect you,no matter what and that unlike you,she isn't going to know that nagging is just normal behavior to her.It's time you talk it out with her before it is too late.Look at all this marriage advice from the positive perspective and try to improve things as much as possible.
• Philippines
29 Apr 13
there's is nothing that a good,nice and clam talk can't resolve. You just have to tell her what are the things that she does that does not make you happy so she can try some adjusments. My husband and I always try to talk things out... though we don't really get a lot of problems, when we have them we deal with it right away and we never talk about it anymore, also, myb husband's really good attitude is that he does make sure everything is ok before he really lets go of any issue that is why we always get to move on.. I am sure that a good talk will help you and your wife to meet in the middle and settle and have a better marriage :)
• Canada
29 Apr 13
Throw an elaborate masquerade ball where you meet her for the first time and seduce her as a stranger. The thrill of forbidden love will get her motor running and you will be able to give her a night to remember. I suggest going as a Jester or Don Quixote but it is up to you what you go as. Maybe you could go as Davey Crockett the king of the wild frontier with coonskin cap and musket with bayonet not attached as to prevent injuries. Remember to wear masks and tell her you will be out of town for a few days so she gets swept off her feet by her new lover. Then remove the mask and yell "Surprise!" Hope this helps get your marriage kick started again. Best of luck.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
29 Apr 13
You don't say how long you have been marrried. For her to be complaining about trival things when it comes to you tells me something else is going on in her mind. Does she truly love you? You walked the same as you did before marriage didn't you? Something is bothering her or she is not in love with you anymore. I would have a talk with her if I were you and ask her what is the problem. Good luck!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Apr 13
You should choke her, ooppps, what I meant was, you should talk to her. Tell her that you feel bad everytime she tells you these stupid things. This would definitely be a cause of a broken marriage if she doesn't stop being a nag.
• India
29 Apr 13
Sad to hear about this. We must be lucky to have an understanding wife. I am lucky in this sort. We both have good under standing and she never interrupt or disturb my work. She helps me a lot in my business and guide me in the right way. I am blessed to have a great wife like her. Have an frank conversation with your wife. It will solve your problem
• Philippines
29 Apr 13
Talk to her and settle the issues one by one. Be honest about how you feel. Tell her you need to do this because you intend to solve whatever problems there are. You also need to need to listen to her and understand whatever she is saying then copme to terms with her or agree on what is best. Try to lead the discussion because as a man,, you are to lead your wife. :)
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
29 Apr 13
Communication is the best solution. You should be open to her about how you feel when she does that to you. If you don't, she would keep doing that all your married life and it would have some bad repercussions.
@Anji1985 (46)
• France
29 Apr 13
I agree that you should talk to her, normally when people are like this it's because they are not happy about something and just getting frustrated with other things. It happens. But I think if you sit down and find out what is really bothering her then she will feel better. And say it in a nice and concerned way, otherwise if you ask it in a fed up or frustrated way then she might take it negatively and then she might get more upset. Goodluck.