They want a good woman
May 1, 2013 2:59am CST
You know, I just don't understand "little boys" sometimes. I say "little boys" because "real men" can't possibly think like this can they. All throughout high school and the three years I attended college I would hear men talking about how they girls were always cheating and why couldn't they find a "good woman". Well your problem lies in you thinking with one head over the other, lots of guys that I knew back then were attracted to hood rats and ghetto girls. You know those girls; the ones with a decent shape on them and whatnot but they don't have a brain in their head. They always cussing and trying to start fights but won't research anything for a better education and view on life. The ones posting pictures half naked on instagram and never demands respect from a man. These "little girls" are getting around with almost every guy (and sometimes) girls) that they know and they don't stay faithful to just one, it is simply ridiculous. Then you have girls like me, I'm not meaning to brag but I have a really nice shape, nice hips and a booty too; basically I have curves. Although I had a serious boyfriend in high school (who was a nice guy at first and then started getting a big head) I never had one in college due to one simple fact, I'm a nice southern girl that is smart and has a passion and drive that just won't stop. I have been an A+ - B+ student my entire life, I have given advice to teachers, students, principals, and so on; I have trained others in working on computers that had never been on a computer in their life. I have had a chance to speak with the superintendent of schools (HISD) and take pictures with him. I have even received awards from the President of these United States, and that was just when I was in elementary school. I honestly never got a second look from guys I went to college with except for a few. Most of the ones I was attracted to would always go for the ghetto girls twerking and shaking they butts at lunch in the courtyard. I just want to know why this is. I am engaged now so I really have no use for the information, but I just wanna know what goes through a guy's head when he is looking for a girl to have a relationship with. Just so you know, I am not just ragging on the guys here, there are girls that do this same crap, so I want opinions from you too. Why do you choose bad boys over good men?
• United States
1 May 13
Oh gosh, where do I start? I like a man who is a little rough around the edges. I don't like men who are 100% a goody two shoes because they just seem so fake to me and, yes, I have dated a couple before. In my experience, the good men are so few to find and when they are found they are usually married. I've done my part of trying to be "demanding" respect. It keeps men guessing for the most part if I am worth their effort. Now, I may not be some floozy that hangs her boobs out (My best body part apparently according to men.) and flaunts her booty; but I do like to show my best qualities gracefully. Oddly, some have pictured me as a goody two shoes but I don't get that because I'm far from innocent. If men feel the need to go after the daisy dukes, booby popping girls who are easy it's probably because those men are not worth your time anyways. The only real way to get a definite answer is to simply approach someone who does this. I personally like good men that at least try to be bad. Makes pointers with me.
• United States
1 May 13
I am like you, I always date a good guy but that always have a bad side. I can be demanding, you can ask my fiancee and my ex; I can be downright mean sometimes. But it's all in the name of getting what I believe I deserve in a man. I don't want a poser or a wimp, I just want a man that will take care of me and also take charge when he has to.