Do married mothers love their husbands more or kids more

India
June 23, 2013 7:50am CST
When I was very little, I asked my grandmother who she loved the most, thinking that the answer would be me. Without hesitating, she told me that she loved grandpa the most. I was surprised and kept asking her if she loved him more than my mother, more than my aunt, more than me. Always the answer was yes. She was incredibly gentle throughout my line of questioning and explained to me that he was the love of her life. I was too young then to understand the difference between romantic love and familial love, but I always remembered this. I also remember my grandparents sitting next to each other on the couch, holding hands and singing tunes together absentmindedly well into their 80s and still do it . But i am still puzzled and overwhelmed by her answer.I always thought she would answer "you " but it was bit of surprising when she said "your grandpa ".I am not jealous though .Its lovely to see them holding hands still ( they are married for like 70 years now ) Do you think it depends on individual women ?? I am just curious to know.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
23 Jun 13
Considering the fact that not all women love their husbands or may be married unhappily, I'd say yes. It depends on the situation.
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• Nanjing, China
24 Jun 13
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• South Africa
25 Jun 13
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@ManiyAA (94)
• Karaj, Iran
23 Jun 13
Good for your grand parents. I really wanna to find some one i mean a partner to love each other and still wait with each other even in difficult situation.and have a romantic relation. may be some days its get true in my life. I would find my partner very soon.
• Mohali, India
26 Jun 13
i think married mothers love their kids more . kids are loved by mothers more than husbands . some what depends on their on family
• Bel Air, Maryland
26 Jun 13
I'd like to think it depends on the woman how deeply her love is for her husband and/or her children to differentiate designating a choice. At different times I am sure the love fluctuates in degrees over time but ultimately the love for her husband should override,