Are Risks really Worth taking!!!!

Lucknow, India
January 12, 2014 8:37am CST
Risks are of many types...Tangible risks and Intangible risks...I guess Intangible risks are more dangerous as they may break you emotionally..a fracture of bone can heal but a fracture of thoughts and emotion ...can never Heal..It may take years or even a life span... I have a very close friend..cannot disclose her name so lets give her a name...hmmm...Tiara.. Tiara is a nice human ...average brain n average looks..petite n lil plump but yes having a happy face...she herself stays confused whether she is actually happy all the time or just is she now habitual of staying happy. Tiara belongs to a nice,weird family full of funny,simple yet very serious people...All have always been like different colors of candy packed in a same packet.Her Momma is extremely sweet n nice lady...strong lady as she has faced many facets of life all alone.Her father ..a nice man,high temper,pure by heart,no control over tongue,shy,alcohol fan..confining many regrets in his heart which he pours out when he is high.Her brother..beautiful mind,highly intelligent..least concerned with what is happening at his home...stays in US.And yes at last but not the least is my Tiara...trying to hold on everything...silly,homesick,very emotional..in a nut shell she herself dont know what she wants , what she expects and what she can out of her life... Tiara took a risk of doing engineering after her 12th grade but eventually her decision took a toll on her health and few other issues and so she wasted her 1 year and came back... Being a sister of beautiful mind she also possess some brainy DNA n so she excelled in her graduation and pg..she got a high package in one of the top bank of India but dropped it as she thought her dreams were different ..then she landed to some other silly jobs but couldn't make a right start. Tiara used her brain n courtesy of Matrimonial Portal she found a guy..Her parents got her married there. NOW the question is Tiara quest for happiness..is finished? Is Tiara finally happy? And where is Tiara? If you have any other good questions related to Tiara...you may shoot them.... Tiara`s quest n her risk episodes will be continued in my coming posts....so watch it guys..... Spread Peace...Its Absolutely Free.......;)
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3 responses
• India
14 Jan 14
No,I don't think she is happy, she will be happy when she will learn to be happy in what she gets. She should learn to steal the happiness from life . For now she is only a confused girl.
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• Lucknow, India
14 Jan 14
Well all five fingers are not same...n as far as i know her..she is among those rare beings who are always on the sacrificing end...with her confused smile...situations have reinforced her on the same platform again n again.
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• Delhi, India
13 Jan 14
To cut the long story short - Happiness lies in one's mind. Whatever your friend did and she does, she should feel satisfied and contended. There is no perfection situations in life, where one would say that he is completely happy. Life is another name of 'adjustments' and one keep making 'adjustments' through out the life. All the best to her.
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• Lucknow, India
14 Jan 14
Yup.....i wish her best of everything all the time....
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• Philippines
15 Jan 14
take risks. nobody knows what really lies ahead of us and the only way to discover it is through taking a risk of getting there.
• Delhi, India
22 Feb 14
Dear Deeksha what I can make out from your story is the lady is no one else but you. Just look inside and and ask yourself why exactly you are not happy? At times we ladies hide our likes, dislikes, wishes, desires, dreams and comforts to make someone else happy or at least to keep him/her out of unhappiness. Just peep inside you and see whats making you feel sad, regret, sorry or revengeful. Once you identify the cause it will be very easy to decide the next possible courses of action. God Bless.
• Lucknow, India
22 Feb 14
@Expressions yo ryt..but when u r d spine of so many life's it's really hard to think about oneself....
• Delhi, India
24 Feb 14
@Diptyhopes Yes. But I am not asking you to be selfish. But just to pin point the source of unhappiness, then you can always work towards taking positive steps to minimize them if not completely eradicate them. God Bless!