Loving a guy who is younger than you!

Ankara, Turkey
January 17, 2014 4:58pm CST
I dont know what to do! I guess im in love with my bff and he is 16. But im 17 so he's younger than me and i guess he loves me back! But i dont know what todo ! I dont wanna ruin this friendship ! If we break up after that we cant be still bffs or be like how now we are and be close because we are always together and we know everything about each other!
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7 responses
• Guangzhou, China
19 Jan 14
You don't have to think too much. Just let it be. If you want to speak with him, just speak with him. If you want to be together with him, just hang out with him. But I think you shouldn't tell him you love him. If he loves you, he will tell you. You just need to wait.
• Ankara, Turkey
19 Jan 14
Yeah i would'nt tell anything to him!and yesterday he told me yhat he loves me and now we are together
• Guangzhou, China
20 Jan 14
@m_moghadam That's great. Congratulations!
@ChiWah (16)
• Shenzhen, China
19 Jan 14
I think age is not a problem.^ ^ After all there's only 1 yr between you too. Test if he also loves you firstly. It's better if the positivie role is the man in the relationship.
• Ankara, Turkey
19 Jan 14
Yeah you're right! Thank you ??
@Christoph56 (1504)
• Canada
20 Jan 14
Yes Yes Yes! Go for it! If you really feel something for him, then the older you get and the longer you stay together the smaller of a difference it'll be, and you'll be so happy that you stayed with him. Don't look at the problems, look at the possibilities! On the other hand, something like this could just be a cover up to some other problem you have with this boy. Try it out, see where it goes! You might not work together in the end, and you'll both move on, or you could both be perfect together, and you'll be so happy you found him. But, the only way to know for sure, is to go for it!
• Moradabad, India
19 Jan 14
The age is not a barrier if your love is true.
• Changshu, China
20 Jan 14
age is never a problem,my father is younger than my mother.
• Guangzhou, China
5 Mar 14
Dont think very much, age is not the major problem, but love is..., so just believe yoursleves.
@echomonster (2226)
• Greenwood, Mississippi
18 Jan 14
I think you and your bff are practically the same age so I don't think that's much of a barrier. However, it's true that your relationship with him will definitely change...it's tough to turn a love relationship back into just a friendship. Some say it's possible; some say it isn't. I tend to be one of those that do think it is POSSIBLE, but still the friendship probably won't be exactly as it once was. However, if you both have feelings for each other I think the relationship has already changed. Even if you try to bottle those feelings up for now, I bet they'll come to the surface sooner or later.