What haVe you done in 5 years?????**

United States
February 1, 2014 1:09pm CST
WOw .. I feel like it was yesterday when I got on here... My Lot has definitely changed but .. well what can you say so have we.. with our experiences. Well I was just curious on seeing how the posts are now running. What have you done in the past five years that you may see as a unique experience that has assisted in playing a role of you growing into a more positive and productive person? As for me, I eliminated the negativity in my life and surrounded myself with positive attitude and productivity from my part in setting goals and fulfilling them no matter what rocks got in the way. I went from miserable negative blues to positive shining bright light in just easy steps... ... step one ...realize only you can stop you and so therefore jump the rocks and continue to aim towards reasonable goals that assist in accomplishing a bigger goal. We are the only ones that make things impossible.. the only way to make it possible is by you putting your foot in front instead of taking three steps back every time you encounter a bad situation. Step 2 your health is important in establishing some type of discipline in reminding you that you are important and that with out you.. you can not make it happen... Step 3 let all that negativity that others might throw at you bounce off of you with a nice positive civil reply.. no reason to go to the dark just because others do not want to see the light... we all encounter so many situations in our life and no matter what stage you are at ... it is never late to believe... we can make it happen if we truly believe and set forth a plan of action.... I now know that life is important and that with out the light of day truly we will become blind and immune to that fact that happiness is in your own hands and the only way you will feel that satisfaction is by making it possible with your effort. We must realize that we have to be open to a better tomorrow no matter how bad we may feel... I hope everyone is having a great day so far and any type of feedback is welcomed.... I definitely want to read some experiences or thoughts about what I wrote... thank you for reading and I hope to hear from you.
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@Bluedoll (17039)
• Canada
3 Feb 14
What a great article. I would be interesting in understanding how people adjust to negativity when they encounter it. For example say a poor comment. There may be none for quite some time but if you do get one?? How do you stay positive?
• United States
4 Feb 14
Thank you for your response and great question... there is always a great deal of negativity that surrounds us and although we may try to help others to see things with a bright light they can only see what they want to see so therefore we can not stop people from producing the emotion and from preventing the way they try to reflect there emotion onto you... we can accept there comments but just let it flow like a rainbow over your head that way the intention of trying to cause a storm ends up just as a variety of colors and we will then pick to either let it be constructive or destructive to oneself.
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@Bluedoll (17039)
• Canada
5 Feb 14
@ADELIZA07 Thank you. Your words really added to your article and also helped me with something I've been dealing with on a personal level. Have a really wonderful day.
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@dpk262006 (56599)
• Delhi, India
3 Feb 14
Welcome back to mylot. It appears that when you were away from mylot, you sort of rediscovered yourself and brought positivity in your life. We hope whatever you have learnt in the past few years will bring more happiness in your life. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
• United States
4 Feb 14
Thanks for your response and for the support!! Yes I can say that we are all made to be reconstructed and to learn to love ourselves first.. and until you learn to value yourself as an individual than that is where your adventure begins... life throws different challenges to everyone and the thing is there are people who literally are paralyzed from the neck down but yet find a reason to smile... we are all fortunate no matter what we are given to work with we need to make the best out of it...
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@dpk262006 (56599)
• Delhi, India
14 Feb 14
@ADELIZA07 - Hope to see you here more frequently.
@CHAOOO (6)
• Shanxi, China
3 Feb 14
Your article to me is like a English class. THANKS
• United States
4 Feb 14
Thanks for your response!! The support is great!