When you hate someone...but it becomes so hard to hate....what to do???
By soulsshine
@soulsshine (488)
Bangladesh
March 1, 2014 10:08am CST
Now I'm standing in such a position of my life where everything is getting wrong. I'm just feeling like there's nothing good left for me. And yes the person I loved more becoming so unknown that sometimes I can't believe that I ever knew him. We are just getting tired of each other. When we are together we try to avoid each other, feels like we hate each other more than anything...but when we are not together we miss each one like hell. Yes I know he also feels the same way. I don't know how but I just know......Is it the love that still trying to mend the bond!! or the hesitation to accept something new!! I don't know why it's becoming so hard to hate!! what to do!
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10 responses
@sunilmishra7756 (4272)
• Moradabad, India
1 Mar 14
It is not possible for man to leave the whole world for a man.
WHEN ALL IS LOST FUTURE STILL REMAINS.
Thanks.
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@soulsshine (488)
• Bangladesh
1 Mar 14
Yeah you are right.......there's must be something good still waiting for me....
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@ciararenee (1)
• , New York
3 Mar 14
@soulsshine there is something good for you out there
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@gaoesheng (2)
• Hangzhou, China
4 Mar 14
to love,there's nothing right or wrong ,but we should try our best to accept and inclusive our friends.Of course, if do like this make we tired,we can only take everything as it comes!
sorry,I'm a chinese,and my English is poor,so i can,t express my feeling completly.And I also need a English-speaking friend to learn and share! I,m looking forward to your reply, thank you
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@johnnygreybeard (181)
• United States
4 Mar 14
Hello,
No need to apologize about English. It is easy for those who are fluent, much harder to learn. You will improve the more you read, and use it.
I am in agreement with your comment from this post.
@johnnygreybeard (181)
• United States
2 Mar 14
You could both do what you want, and not worry so much about staying together, or being apart. Do not hate,or fight with each other.
Both of you try letting go, and not control each other. You may not be controlling, but my senses say for you both to loosen up, and be happy.
Together, or apart----be happy!
Best wishes to you.
@johnnygreybeard (181)
• United States
4 Mar 14
@chengl1223 Hi,
Where are the "high-end quality" products manufactured?
@Blakeoven (29)
• Jiangsu, China
4 Mar 14
All of life is an act of letting go,maybe what hurts the most is not taking a moment to say goodbye. Don't waste your time looking back on what you've lost. Move on, for life is not meant to be traveled backwards
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@AngelLoliGennie (26)
• China
4 Mar 14
Time will tell everything! Probably both of you may think for a while and after you both are clear with the situation, you'll be in good relationships again.
@Krishnasish_says (12)
• Kharagpur, India
2 Mar 14
It will only make u stronger n more mature with time....these r lessons life tries to teach us... all u have to do now is to wait for one who truly deserves u, even if the wait is long n painful n soaked in memories
@dancybb (17)
• Shenzhen, China
2 Mar 14
Dear, why not you are just cold down some days and to think seriouly about your relationship, if you want to be together again, then you are trying to love and understand each.
You do remeber that there will be someone in this world will love you and give you happyness!
@marv18 (3)
• Camiling, Philippines
3 Mar 14
hi,i also experience that and it was result to break up,but then after a few weeks we realized that it was just a trial to challenge a relationship.if i wer you,do what is right!
@angielou123 (2)
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3 Mar 14
I also was in this situation. I left and it took me a year and a half to realise that we were meant to be together. Its funny how you feel after a long break, when I hated that man when I left.
