What is my Sexuality?

Sydney, Australia
March 14, 2014 1:42am CST
I don't know my sexuality. When I was younger I wanted to believe I was heterosexual but then I thought I was just lying to my self and is actually a homosexual person. But then, I fell in love with a person from the opposite sex. I was not turned on by her and now that I think about it... I'm not turned on by the same sex much either. Whenever I fantasize, It would mostly be about 2 different persons and not me. But I did fantasize once about my butler from like 9 or 10 years ago but...It had 2 scenarios like one was I was female and one was where I was male. Though I think I was just confused about it since we were always together and ended up discussing topics like those plus he would sleep with me on the same room when I was 10 since I was scared. I am a very submissive male and I don't have a sense of dominance at all. I read this article but It only got me much more confused. I am now currently thinking about being either asexual or bisexual P.S I'm new....
Determining your sexual orientation can be a confusing experience, but only you can truly determine it, on your own terms. There's no test for it yet, so the most reliable method is do look at your history, your feelings, and make an...
4 responses
• Harbin, China
14 Mar 14
I am new too
• United States
16 Mar 14
Welcome @AnnaLeelee
@cupkitties (7561)
• United States
14 Mar 14
You don't think about being. You either are or you aren't. Welcome to Mylot.
• Sydney, Australia
15 Mar 14
Wow! That was the best answer I have ever heard... Thanks a lot. You may think (probably) its just a small thing but its the best answer I have ever had... Thank you...
• Portland, Oregon
16 Mar 14
Hello, my name is Del. I don't want to offend, but I do know the answer to your question. If you really want to know more about your sexuality, I can tell you plenty. These days, it's very common to listen only to those sources which tell us what we want to hear, and that is made even easier when those "advisors" are in the majority. If you want real help, may I suggest breaking rank from the outspoken majority and listen to the more subtle voice of reason. Care to know what source I'm referring to?
@Bluedoll (17050)
• Canada
15 Mar 14
I guess life and joy in life is how we find out who we are? And try not to worry about who we are not.