What are your views on ADHD

@beckyomg1 (6756)
United States
November 23, 2006 7:08am CST
What are your views on Adhd, i know that i believe that it is a real condition. I also know that many people do not.
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@14missy (3183)
• Australia
1 Dec 06
My views on ADHD totally changed when my daighter was diagnosed at the age of 8. She had no real attention span and was very flighty. She seem to slip under the radar at school because she was bright. The teachers didn't want to bring too much to our attention because she was doing well at school, but I knew she wasn't 'right' and she could do so much better. I know this sounds a bit round about but it was a rough few years of going to doctors, counselors, psychologists etc before we knew that it wasn't our fault and bad parenting etc. My daughter is now on medication (which was trial and error for a few years) and is now excelling at school to the point where she has done some testing for gifted children! We have some days 'off medication' but she really needs them to concentrate at school and we will review it all down the track. It is a difficult thing for every one to live with...
@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
1 Dec 06
thank you so much for sharing. i know they really do slip under the radar because they are actually smart kids. it also as rracers states hard not to blame oursleves. but it really is a condition and it is not bad parenting. all we need to do is take care of our kids and help them as much as we can.
@rracers89 (3246)
• United States
1 Dec 06
Yes i know totally how you feel, you can not punish yourself. But as parents we do.
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• Australia
23 Nov 06
I do believe there is a condition called adhd but I also believe there are a lot of parents that through not disciplining their children, their children have become very naughty. I hate being at the shops and a child is throwing a tantrum the mother just ignores the child hoping they will stop.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
23 Nov 06
yes that is true, i believe that one hundred percent. i also dont think its right for moms or even dads to just igonre them when they are doing that. i take the kids if mine did that and just leave the store. and take care of it outside. you know what i mean, sometimes they need to be taken out of the situation because they just want to get a rise out of the parents.
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@rracers89 (3246)
• United States
23 Nov 06
my childs issues were not that she wasn't discplined or that she was naughty her issues were that she couldnt pay attention in school long enough and was very impulsive about how she handled things.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
23 Nov 06
yeah, sorry to say but my son was both.
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
My son has autism and ADHD, I believe it is part of the autistic spectrum and is a nasty problem in it's own right. People like his old teacher who insisted it was just a parental control issue should try being their parent. My son has a few seconds attention span and has to be constantly be reminded to keep on task, of course he has other problems caused by the autism but he's in "ordinary" school and recieves little help. Some people have little idea how difficult controlling our little ones can be and deny their needs because they do not understand, even children without special needs canbe a handful. I was once told that as his mother you know if something is wrong and don't need other people who don't know your little one making any judgements.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
1 Dec 06
it really is hard. i wish more people understood how hard it is. i think that we all do as much as we can to make them understand. because they are smart kids and no one should make judgments like you said.
@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
1 Dec 06
This reminds me of my cousin when he's not on his  - ADHD kid
It's absolutely a real condition, the problem is that so many parents and doctors alike diagnose this too quickly. I have a cousin who has lived with my family since he was four (he's 11 now) and he has ADHD. Some people who have ADHD can deal with it just fine with no medication or very little medication. My cousin needs medication. I know that this is a legitimate health concern because the difference in him is very blatant when he is on the medication and when it wears off around 7pm every night. It's a delicate matter that shouldnt be taken lightly and medication should never be used as a quick fix.
@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
1 Dec 06
thanks you so much. yes on the meds wearing off, i know with my child that yes it is like a dr jekell mr hyde comparison . and yes too many just jump on giving meds. i think that some people need and others do not. thanks again.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
23 Nov 06
I have two boys with ADHD and on medication. One of my other boys could also be diagnosed as ADHD, but does not take madication. I think doctors and teachers are too quick to get the child diagnosed ADHD. If a child is too loud or wiggle too much, hey..they must be ADHD, right? I think a parent knows their child best. And if you feel your child may have this problem, read up on it and educate yourself. Only then with you know and can seek help. ADHD is a real condition...but too many are too quick to diagnose.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
true alot are too quick to diagnose. i dont think that is right, because that only gives it a bad rap, when it really is a condition that needs to be treated correctly for children and adults that have it.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
true alot are too quick to diagnose. i dont think that is right, because that only gives it a bad rap, when it really is a condition that needs to be treated correctly for children and adults that have it.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
true alot are too quick to diagnose. i dont think that is right, because that only gives it a bad rap, when it really is a condition that needs to be treated correctly for children and adults that have it.
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• Philippines
23 Nov 06
kids with ADHD is hyperactive and they were called special child...these kids were also intelligent in the way that they excell on everything. Parents must plAy the vitAl role in treating And understanding kids with ADHD..sometimes it is useful to engange them on a very sporty activities.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
23 Nov 06
you are correct, that they do excel, and it is sad to see people put them down, for being labeled. it is just not right.
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@rracers89 (3246)
• United States
23 Nov 06
Yes i totaly agree because first they thought that she was getting bored in class because shed fly right threw her work so they thought she was "gifted" Turns out she is in some areas Sports are a vital part of her life and have been jsut as helpfull as the meds,she needs a release, she does karate,plays tee ball and soccer and does girl scouts.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
29 Nov 06
well, i can tell you that it is a real condition since i have a hubby who has ADHD since he is a child...
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
29 Nov 06
thank you so much for the response.
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@hizzle13 (644)
• United States
25 Nov 06
I think its real to a point.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
to a point?
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25 Nov 06
My son has adhd and i have to say that he was diagnosed about 5 years ago. he is a very hyper little boy with very little concration span, he will get really angry and he has so much strengh, he will sometimes sits on the stairs and bang his head on the wall over and over again, there is nothing that i can do to stop him but apart from trying to protect his head and wait for him to stop. He is on medication and this does help. He has to take his medication daily and if he forgets his tablet oh boy do i know about it, I also have to add that i also had adhd when i was a child and i am now in my 30's. I dont think that you complety grow out of it but you do learn to know where your problem areas are and you just do your best to avoid them, The good thing is that when you get older it does get easier to manage and you than dont need to take the medication as you can control it yourself.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
oh yeah when someone does have the conditon and they are on meds and then dont have them boy you can tell and its hard. thanks .
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@paule4129 (968)
• United States
29 Nov 06
i was born that way and its been lifetime maintnence now its called bipolar when were adults when i was a child it was unruly child and i ggot sent away
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
29 Nov 06
i know it took a long time to be diagnosed as a real condition and i hope these days that your doing well.
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@xtinelee (3371)
• Singapore
29 Nov 06
What is Adhd? I have no clue on what is that. :-)
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
29 Nov 06
you can read the previous posts to find out what it is it is a bit hard to describe.
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• Singapore
29 Nov 06
ermz, whats ADHD? :S
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
1 Dec 06
you can read the previous post check out what it is if you want.
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• United States
28 Nov 06
ADHD is a disorder that has been documented and is treatable. Here is some information on the causes of ADHD as per the Mayo Clinic. Parents often blame themselves when a child has been diagnosed with ADHD, but scientists increasingly believe that structural changes in the brain, not parenting, may be a leading cause of the disorder. Scientists once thought that a chemical imbalance was involved in many cases of ADHD because adults and children diagnosed with ADHD appear to have low levels of dopamine (dopa decarboxylase), a chemical that sends messages to the part of the brain involved in attention, movement and motivation. But brain scans of children with ADHD also show changes in the neural pathways along which these messages move. It's possible that this may interfere with communication between the parts of the brain that regulate attention, planning, impulsive behavior and motor control — all areas of difficulty for people with ADHD. Just because it is not fully understood doesn't mean it isn't real. Although I do believe the diagnoses is over used by physicians at the urging of teachers and schools.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Thanks so much for that response. it is greatly appreciated.
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@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I also believe this condition does exist. I know someone that possibly has it but has never been diagnosed. Without medication, I think it can be difficult to handle.
@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
29 Nov 06
very true it is hard to handle at times.
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@ahalapia (942)
• United States
24 Nov 06
I have a 13 year old daughter that has ADHD it is a real condition and it upsets me that alot of people misunderstand what is all about and think that all the kids need is a good spanking or time out and it would all go away which is not true by any means. It takes alot of patience, resources and education and yes sometimes meds to get,it under control.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
you are correct there needs to be more education on it and it does takes lots and lots of patience and loving.
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• United States
25 Nov 06
I have Adult ADHD. It is not the worst that could happen.
@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
yes it is hard as an adult, since it is so misunderstood.
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• United States
23 Nov 06
I have twins with ADHD. The oldest was put in special classes. The youngest had accomodations. What a fun time I had. The older one felt like he was stupid. Both were the opposite of stupid. The teachers didn't know how to deal with ADHD. Both dropped out of school at the end of 10th grade.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
24 Nov 06
i really think that teachers need to be versed in how to teach these children, so that they dont feel different. becaue yes they are very smart.
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@milott (2646)
• India
23 Nov 06
It is worst disorder to get, i personally feel. If an adult gets ADD, that is even worse. You will have difficulty concentrating at work and finishing the tasks on time, etc. I guess I am also suffering from ADD, will need to check out with my doc soon, else it would overwhelm oneself.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
23 Nov 06
Yes it is difficult for adults, alot of them just blow it off, because they dont realize that they have it or could have it.
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@rracers89 (3246)
• United States
23 Nov 06
My daughter has ADHD, she was diagnoised 3 years ago, we have tried many differnt ways and treatment to get it under control before we decided to use medications, she is doing really great with the meds and is finally excelling in school and having/making really great friendships.
@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
23 Nov 06
that is great that she is doing well, my child has been on meds since he was 7 and he does very well.
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@rracers89 (3246)
• United States
23 Nov 06
Good i am glad he is doing well my daughter is on Ritalyn. Now if we could just get society to realize that this is a true medical condition and not bad parenting we may have won the battle.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
23 Nov 06
you are right. my son is on dexadrine, its stronger then the ritalin. he does so well on it. just wish i could do more for him.
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@LadyCroft (701)
• Australia
23 Nov 06
AJ - AJ
I do belive ADHD exsists but I think too many parents use it for an excuse.
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@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
i agree to. some parents do do that. thanks
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