Makes me sad.
By Dollet4434
@dollet (7)
Philippines
February 22, 2015 3:47am CST
Hi everyone. I got a boyfriend and we are already been months. I love him very much. Sometimes, when I am telling him "I love you" i got no response and sometimes will get a look like i don't want to respond to that. I know that im not throwing him question but it feels so painful when he doesn't respond to it. It made me feel like he really does not love me at all. I got a heavy feeling too that he just stay because he does not want to hurt me coz he is such a good and religious person. Is my feeling right? :(
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9 responses
@rodabod (174)
• United States
24 Feb 15
The best thing you can do is be patient. Love is all about being patient. Some times it take people a long time before they tell you that they love you. Being in love and expressing your love should always be a big deal. If you heart truly says that you love him and that you loves you, it will be worth the wait. Your heart will tell you if he really loves you. You will also know by his other actions. There is nothing to worry about.
P.S. I'm from the United States and engaged to a Filipina. She will be moving here to the states at the end of the year. So its nice to meet someone on here that is from the Philippians. You guys have a beautiful country and beautiful people.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
23 Feb 15
It is better to ask him and confront him rather than make guesses. You could ask him upto what extent he likes you and whether he is committed to you? If he is not interested in you, there is no point to continue with him, in my view.
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@dollet (7)
• Philippines
23 Feb 15
Thank you for responding. I thought of that too. I want him to be happy too. That's why I just pray that if he really does not love me, he should tell me that and I am willing to set him free even though it hurts me. I just want him to be happy.
@LinishFrancis (1)
• New Delhi, India
24 Feb 15
just keep on trying... true love never fails
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@dollet (7)
• Philippines
24 Feb 15
He seems the kind of person who does not want confrontation and instead will answer me indirectly or change the topic. That is why it leads me to confusion too.
@LavanyaGani (1)
• New Delhi, India
22 Feb 15
Show your love towards him and love can change any situation but it is that you need to have patience. Try to show him what he means to you. Try to make him release that at some point of time or at least for few days you were together. if you really love him then dont give up
@dollet (7)
• Philippines
23 Feb 15
Thanks for your advice. I never stop showing him how important he is to me. Even though at times, I became silent because its too painful to bear anymore. And by the way what do you mean by "Try to make him release that at some point of time or at least for few days you were together. "
@dollet (7)
• Philippines
24 Feb 15
Thanks, I am trying to be calm always. He still with me and I hope he wont run away.
