Living in before getting married

Philippines
August 18, 2015 7:28pm CST
Just a thought this morning. Do you agree that partners should live together first for a couple of months before deciding to get married? Or, do you prefer getting married first before living together in one house? Thanks for your ideas in advance.
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@cgalavia (1406)
• Philippines
19 Aug 15
Hi,I am living together with my partner for three years now,we have two kids but not yet married.I like marrying first before living together but things happened already and now I have no plan of getting married.I like how the set up goes.You can fly away anytime if you are no longer happy with your partner or something have change with the relationship.
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@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 15
No longer happy and then fly away just like that... What about the kids that you left off? Don't you want to sacrifice for your own kids?
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@cgalavia (1406)
• Philippines
20 Aug 15
@ifa225 If you continue to stay in a relationship that is not working anymore,children also will be more affected because they see every not so good moment that is happening which is not good at their young age .I know what you are trying to convey,children have always been my priority and you don't know how much I am suffering every single day... I have sacrifice enough if you only knew.
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@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 15
@cgalavia but we can stay married even the relationship is not working out Married can make us secure in a law side
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@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 15
I prefer to get married first before living together, so just in case I got pregnant, my baby will have a father
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@MusesM (582)
19 Aug 15
that's is the same question i want to know:)
@cherigucchi (4108)
• Philippines
19 Aug 15
As long as you are both consenting adults, you may do so.