She Was Momentarily Berserk !

@SIMPLYD (90722)
Philippines
September 10, 2015 3:39am CST
Today , my co-auditor suddenly went berserk with anger ! When I gave her back the document that came from Finance , because the general manager questions why the penalties were to be waived , she was so angry ! She threw the document at the floor and went on ranting ! Her anger was not for me but for the Finance Head who had the documents in her tray for almost one month and now it’s questioned ! After a while , she calmed down and that’s when I told her I was silently laughing at her when she suddenly threw the document and momentarily went berserk . We both laughed out loud because she said , that’s how we Sagittarians get angry as we are both Sagittarian and I also had some moments like that before . At least , after the outburst we cool down. Are you like us too when you get so angry ?
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
10 Sep 15
I will freeze if my co or my mate went berserk and can not even laugh in silence When I get angry, I get totally lost in logical thinking, I might scream outloud nagging to show how angry I am but after that I would feel so sorry cause I might hurts someone with my words Oh by the way, I am Libran
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
10 Sep 15
I might scream out loud nagging to show how angry I am but after that I would feel so sorry cause I might hurts someone with my words That is exactly one part of me
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Sep 15
I didn't laugh out loud coz she might throw the document at me . But kidding aside , i was really so fascinated by her outburst , because i know anyway that it wasn't me she was angry at . Oh you are a Libran . So a Libran gets angry like us Sagittarians also. But not like a berserk one .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Sep 15
@thesids I also feel that way , whenever i have my outbursts because i know i may have hurt someone with my sharp edged words . I compensate by being so nice the next hours such as giving a sandwich .
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@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
10 Sep 15
I think I would be stunned if I get that reaction. And no I don't really have that sort of outbursts when I'm angry. I'm pretty good at hiding my anger (or any other emotion for that matter).
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Sep 15
Wow, i admire you for not having such outbursts . You are a calm person and knows how to hide your feeling . But do you know that always hiding your anger might instead give you a heart attack ?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Sep 15
@cahaya1983 That's good then if you know how to channel your anger .
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@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
10 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD I didn't know that, but then again hiding your anger doesn't necessarily mean swallowing it. We just need to find a proper outlet to channel our anger, and not necessarily in front of people.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
10 Sep 15
It is difficult for me to laugh if someone is getting mad the way you have described. I will observe him/her and then will try to pacify him. Anger is a natural emotion but your colleague getting so much angry and throwing the documents on floor would have been a shocking episode for me.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
10 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD - Oh I see. If you feel like you could pull up her legs by telling her that you are going to tell the boss about the entire episode.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
@dpk262006 She's afraid i might tell my boss (i am directly reporting to her ) because it could be miscontrued that she got angry because she questioned her letter for approval. But if i do , i will explain it to my boss to whom my co-auditor was really angry with . I am sure my boss will laugh out loud for her outburst . I always make her laugh with my stories . I love seeing her laugh that's why .
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Sep 15
Actually , i was silent and just looking at her while she did that . I just laughed inside and burst out laughing after i saw her calmed already . She told me not to tell our boss with her outburst .
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
10 Sep 15
I rarely get so angry. I do get upset many a times though. I am still learning the art of "not showcasing" the feelings, and many a times I have been successful.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
10 Sep 15
I believe you You are the calmest person i ever knew in internet
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
10 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD I was born in the cusp of Virgo and Libra. This has been primarily responsible for almost everything about my behavior. As per the cusp - the last day of Virgo is also the start of the first day of Libra... I dont know if you would find anything on those books about being calm - but yes, it was a way I chose to be. Years back, in 1990s, I was the kind of person you would never have liked being with - unless you were honest, and much straightforward
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Sep 15
Wow, so you are a calm person . It's rare to find a person like you . Congratulations for being that in control. So what is your zodiac sign by the way , so i can read something about it and see if it is how they should be - calm .
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@sofssu (23662)
10 Sep 15
No, I don't react like that ever. I am calm and collected, I might feel bad inside but that is about it. No show of anger and display of temper. Not me. I cannot handle such people either.. I follow the path of non violence.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
You know , the way i see most of your posts i know that you are a calm person . Good for you . But i am now in control of my temper .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
@sofssu Yes, i am happy too , i am now able to control my temper . I hate it before, when i had some of my outbursts at the office . Though , i compensated it with one way or another to those i have hurt during those times . So far, after that we were close again . Though at the office most of us officers have our bouts of outbursts and shouting match already . But after that , we will all be good again with one another .
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@sofssu (23662)
11 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD I am happy for you.. I wasn't a calm person before.. I had to learn to control my anger and not to turn it inside either. Life is a learning process. I am happy we are good learners.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
10 Sep 15
I am a Pisces so I am pretty easy going until I have had enough then I get angry.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Sep 15
So Pisces are like that. I think i should be friends with Pisces people and those that don't easily get angry so i will learn from them on how to control my anger..
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
10 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD We are generally mild mannered people who take a lot before they get angry. But when we do, watch out
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
@simone10 I know of friends who are so in control of their temper . But when they have enough they really get so mad , they won't calm down easily .
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@rusty2rusty (6751)
• Defiance, Ohio
10 Sep 15
I have never lost my temper like that in the work place. It is disrespectful and makes you look like a child. I would not find it funny. I would be offended. But that was how I was raised. You keep your temper and composer in check when in the work force. Where I live, a fit like that would get someone fired.
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• Defiance, Ohio
11 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD I am glad you can handle the drama. I would never work in a place like that. If I seen that was allowed I would look for another job as soon as i could and leave.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
Yes, we know that . But in our office , Everyone has their moments like that . We quarrel but would get in terms to each other afterward .
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
10 Sep 15
No, when people do stupid things or ask for impossible tasks to be done, I generally mutter to myself. I come up with some pretty good stuff, but no one gets to hear it.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
Oh so you have a diffrent style ! I know of some employees who are like that - muttering to themselves when they got irked .
@topffer (42156)
• France
10 Sep 15
I tend to hold my anger, but I am like a pressure-cooker and when there is too much vapor in it, it has to go out. I don't get berserk once a year, but it is memorable when it happens, and I never regret it. I don't know if it has something to do with astrology. I am an aquarius.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
10 Sep 15
@ChesneyM I like this expression, "cool as a cucumber". I am a quiet volcano : people have to walk several times on my feet before I feel really angry and explode, and it happened to me maybe 6 or 7 times in my life for good reasons. You cannot stay always cool and take everything with humor, and a volcanic eruption can be efficient when it is rare.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
@ChesneyM So those who are of air signs are i think cool headed . Lucky for them , unlucky for me because i always regret my outbursts ! But they do seldom happens.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
10 Sep 15
Pressure - cooker lol
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
10 Sep 15
I don't let myself get angry but like your boss if I'm upset about something wave my arms around like directing traffic. I guess it looks funny. If I do get angry it is terrible. My wooden cupboard door knows.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
Oh i think you are far more fiercer than us when angry !
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
@Bluedoll I understand it as that , when you are angry you would kick your wooden cupboard door ? Am i right ?
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
11 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD Did you understand cupboard door? WELL DID YOU??
• United States
10 Sep 15
No not anymore. I used to be before. Now I just walk away and do not react.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
That's good . My observation for myself is i seem to mellow now on getting outbursts . Maybe it comes with getting older .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Sep 15
@TiarasOceanView Oh yes, if you do that in public . At the office you can be given a verbal warning when it gets too much to handle.
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• United States
11 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD It comes with being arrested by police in USA for speaking your mind or fighting or yelling..no moving or breathing allowed..nothing to do with age.
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@writerjo (2544)
• Chennai, India
10 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD The angry moments mostly does not continue . That will be for some while She might have realised her expression shown in front of your Finance Head . Also she laughed at you in the meaning that she done a mistake and wants to apologize for the same I think I am correctly guessed
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
Actually when she went berserk another employee is in the room , but not the Finance Head . Later she told me that another employee was contributory to what made her berserk ! Yes, your guess is correct !
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
@writerjo I actually told the Finance Head about that and told my co-auditor that i told her . I also told her the Finance Head was seemingly cautious now . They are still in good terms and now understand each other's feelings.
@writerjo (2544)
• Chennai, India
11 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD There might be a cold war in between that employee and your co-auditor.
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• Bucharest, Romania
10 Sep 15
I generally do not get angry. I always try to keep my calm.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
Wow, that is so good of you ! How i wish i am that also .
@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
10 Sep 15
LOL, no I am Pisces, I stay calm even during those moments. My Mom is Sagittarian, I know what you mean.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
Good for you my friend . So your mom is like us too , Sagittarian .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
@LadyDuck Just like me .
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
11 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD Yes, my Mom gets angry easily and has funny reactions, but she also calms down easily.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
10 Sep 15
yes and it is a good thing you can get over it quickly and not let it build
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
I easily recover my calmness when i realize my outburst and regret it .
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
10 Sep 15
Another Sag here too! Just in case my anger rises with pest on here is there a way to block them?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
Oh yes there is . I can see that @Phredwreck has told you already .
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
14 Sep 15
I am a Sagittarius and I get that to a point. I don't just freak out. I will get angry for the time frame factor, but the logical human inside me goes over the document with a fine tooth comb. I always find the problems. However, if the same thing is repeated I will get angry. Knowing I know the document is 100 percent correct. But, I mostly get spiteful.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
So very true with Sagitarians like us ! I don't even want to be asked over the same question twice or more .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Sep 15
@inertia4 That's very us , Sagittarians !
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
16 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD Exactly. I hate when someone repeats themselves two and three times. It drives me nuts. And I hate hearing a whole story when the bottom line would do. Let me ask he questions.
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• Indonesia
11 Sep 15
I could never angry at job. MY job is very enjoyable, no stress, no pressure and nobody gets angry here
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
Really ! You are so lucky to have that kind of job and kind officemates .
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• Indonesia
15 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD Yes, I'm very lucky This kind of job is very rare!
• United States
1 Oct 15
I hole it until there is so much I let loose. I think your way is probably healthier because holding onto anger can cause physical problems.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Oct 15
Precisely . But sometimes i can't control how i explode , i would go overboard . But i compensate the outburst to the person in one way or another .
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
10 Sep 15
That was lovely,'anger management', from you.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
I have to talk about it , so i can help calm her down .
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