your crush is crushing on your friend

@lady1993 (17423)
Philippines
September 30, 2015 1:40am CST
that really sucks, it's inevitable...and has happened to me almost every time what's worse is, the your crush asks you for help in dating your friend does this ever happen to you? what do you do?
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@ria1606roy (2684)
• Kolkata, India
30 Sep 15
wow, that's unfortunate. I remember liking this guy for two whole years, and he never even knew or understood. Later I came to know he was crushing on my best friend! I was so astonished, but thankfully by that time I'd gotten over it. So my best friend is still my best friend!
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@dpk262006 (56148)
• Delhi, India
30 Sep 15
Means the guy was able to fool you and your best friend?
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• Kolkata, India
30 Sep 15
@dpk262006 nah he proposed to my bestie. She said no. Then after a year she told me about it. He was definitely able to fool me
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@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
1 Oct 15
yes friendship is definitely worth more than a guy - guys just come and go but some friendships can last forever
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@dpk262006 (56148)
• Delhi, India
30 Sep 15
You probably choose the wrong guy or you tell a lot about your friend to your guy or you go and meet your guy with your friend? If someone says that he wants your help in dating your close friend, it is unfair - just kick him, he does not deserve you.
@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
1 Oct 15
i was just crushing, it is not something deep yet - so the guy can chose whomever he likes , but it is still sad
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@dpk262006 (56148)
• Delhi, India
1 Oct 15
@lady1993 - So you were not so serious.
@dpk262006 (56148)
• Delhi, India
1 Oct 15
@Unforgettable_Raja - I checked up meaning of crush in the category of 'informal' use it's meaning is - "a brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable"
@simone10 (21657)
• Louisville, Kentucky
1 Oct 15
As far as I know, I have never had that happen. I have been cheated on by other women but they have never wanted to date any of my friends.
@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
2 Oct 15
being cheated on is worse.. i'm sorry but at least your exes never dated your friends, that is much harder
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@simone10 (21657)
• Louisville, Kentucky
4 Oct 15
@lady1993 I would feel so betrayed if that happened.
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@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
6 Oct 15
@simone10 yes, that is why it's kind of an unsaid rule in girl world, and maybe even guy world
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@allknowing (65014)
• India
1 Oct 15
The meaning of crush in this case has taken a new twist. According to me a crush works both ways. This indeed is odd.
@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
2 Oct 15
what do you mean exactly?
@allknowing (65014)
• India
2 Oct 15
@lady1993 When both like each other how can one ditch the other.
@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
3 Oct 15
@allknowing oh...then the feeling is mutual
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@softbabe44 (5902)
• Vancouver, Washington
30 Sep 15
thats not right but people do things like this just to get attention and it really doesn't matter if he already has a girlfriend or not thats the way they are
@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
1 Oct 15
i'm quite confused.. what is not right?
• Vancouver, Washington
1 Oct 15
@lady1993 having crush on the others boyfriend or girlfriend
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@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
2 Oct 15
@softbabe44 oh, no.. you misunderstand... the guy is no ones boyfriend
@swissheart (6467)
• Romania
30 Sep 15
woow that sounds really really bad and you get some sort of envy on your friend. but the fact is that there's nothing that you can do about it. when your time will come you will find someone who is worth your atention
@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
1 Oct 15
yes, i did envy my friend for a bit.. but she is more important to me and i never told her i was crushing on the guy crushing on her
• Romania
1 Oct 15
@lady1993 I guess if you never shared that to her than she shouldn't be blamed. are they together now?
@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
2 Oct 15
@swissheart no they aren't together, i can't really blame anyone - it is no one's fault anyway
@joygracia (1328)
• Philippines
30 Sep 15
I have had that experience before and its damn painful as its frustrating. I just decided to get over him at once.
@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
1 Oct 15
yeah, that is all we can do.. sadly
@LadyDuck (156900)
• Switzerland
30 Sep 15
Are you serious?! This is too bad. Nothing like this ever happened to me.
@lady1993 (17423)
• Philippines
1 Oct 15
yep... unfortunately i am serious
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