are you worried about the people who don't like you?

Romania
October 8, 2015 10:49am CST
I never gave much of a struggle in being accepted.I always considered that whoever cares about me accepts me the way I am. so i don't even bother thinking about the people who don't like me
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• United States
8 Oct 15
That truly is the best way to be ...why worry ourselves about people who dont like us especially on line? We can just take care to notice others that want to be around us.
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• Romania
8 Oct 15
we can't live our lives according to other people's expectations. plus it's not healthy to bother about making others like you
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• United States
8 Oct 15
@swissheart You are so correct swissheart.
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• Soignies, Belgium
8 Oct 15
Thats why i like to focus o the good things that surrounds me in my life :) and ignore the worse or the bad in general , be aware of it just in case oif reaction , but really focusing on whom loves me and whats good in my life its my way ;)
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@marguicha (94832)
• Chile
8 Oct 15
A couple of times in my life I have had problems with that because it has been family. But when I donĀ“t get along with friends, I move on.
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• Romania
8 Oct 15
yes it's true at least you get to choose your friends but you can't do that with family too
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@Tita417 (1238)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Oct 15
When it comes to family, that's not really good. you can face the one who's been doing that. I would, but about my own life nah, let her talk to her hearts content. nothing will budge me.
• Soignies, Belgium
9 Oct 15
@Tita417 I've had my share of disputes with my familly , but even when we we're not talking to each other we used to often worry about one and another, so familly its a hard line pn this topi c for me.
@Rollo1 (16689)
• Boston, Massachusetts
9 Oct 15
Oh, it's such a long list of people who don't like me. I think it is. I don't know because I never bother with them. Well, maybe I do. I guess I would rather pretend I don't notice that they don't like me.
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@Tita417 (1238)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Oct 15
you do that and you'll turn out okay
• Romania
9 Oct 15
you shouldn't worry about such things. they should simply mind their own business
• Soignies, Belgium
8 Oct 15
Goood evening dear swissheart , there was a time whgen i used to be a pathological people pleasurer , up untill a few years ago when i started hearing rumors about that lets say where more then heartfull , so ever since i dont give a rats behind about what people thik at all about me , who doesn't like its their choice and i dont frankly care about it. Have a great evening.
@Tita417 (1238)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Oct 15
Well said I really think so too
• Romania
9 Oct 15
that's the spirit. and you should live your live your way and now how others suggest you to
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@softbabe44 (5902)
• Vancouver, Washington
9 Oct 15
thats so true why worry about the ones that don't like you they just don't know
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@Tita417 (1238)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Oct 15
Don't ever go below their leel. push i aside and live your life
• Mumbai, India
9 Oct 15
That's the right attitude. After all it's your life and you are living for yourself and not for others. Doesn't matter how much success you achieve or whatever you have done, there always will be some people who will criticize you. The thing which matters is your should not do such things which gives you or to others
• Romania
9 Oct 15
what bothers me is that people make opinions on how your life is going even if you don't ask them to
• Mumbai, India
9 Oct 15
@swissheart@swissheart that's the nature of people. In fact you and me also have this nature of talking about others. The only difference is some of us interfere too much in others life. All these people are part of our life only. We can't stop them from making judgement but what we can do is to improve ourselves so that we feel proud about ourselves
• Romania
9 Oct 15
@humanity_revisited I consider is ok to give an advice if someone asks you too. but making an opinion about a certain situation even if nobody told you too seems a little rude to me
@else34 (13610)
• New Delhi, India
9 Oct 15
@swissheart,I don't know how many people are there around me who do not like me.But I am sure,they must be very few.My perception is people don't hate me.They accept me without any hesitation.So I have never thought about those who might be my haters or 'dislikers.'
• Romania
9 Oct 15
ever considered that there are also fake people who might pretend they like you when in fact they don't?
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@else34 (13610)
• New Delhi, India
9 Oct 15
@swissheart I don't know,and in fact,I don't care until they harm me.I try to do what I should without hurting or harming anybody.Even if they pretend they love me,I have no objection.Let them pretend.I can't make them love me.
• Romania
9 Oct 15
@else34 and what if a colleague at work would try to do you harm simply because he doesn't like you. how would you react?
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@allknowing (65162)
• India
9 Oct 15
We cannot be liked by everyone and so it is better that we are attuned to accepting that fact.
• Romania
9 Oct 15
but don't you think is weird how people try to turn us into them?
@allknowing (65162)
• India
10 Oct 15
@swissheart The less you worry about how people behave the better for you.
@Tita417 (1238)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Oct 15
That's right. People has a lot to say about who and why around them and that pains everybody because of talk, talk, talk. Wel,l then the only way you get back at them is if you don't mind what they say. They can talk all they want, as long as yo don't fight them back that fine. They'll lose their voice and maybe their teeth. That's what my mom always say. If you talk about others you might lose your teeth haha
• Romania
9 Oct 15
that's true. you don't stop them talking by worrying about such things: you might make them act even worse
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@Tita417 (1238)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Oct 15
@swissheart we all have flaws and we just have to be honest to change it and go move on
9 Oct 15
Yes and no. It depends if i interact with them often.
• Romania
9 Oct 15
what if your colleagues at work didn't like you( you're forced to interact with them even if you don't enjoy this)
@NeldaHoxie (1388)
• United States
9 Oct 15
There are so many people in the world. I just try to hangout with my friends and ignore the rest.
@munhozmib (3857)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
9 Oct 15
Hey there, swissheart. There was a time in my life in which I didn't care at all. I was young, and I didn't mind if others would like me or not. Then I got to a stage in which it would bother me a lot. I would be really worried and trying not to be unpleasant to others. Nowadays, I understand that we will not be liked by everyone. It is simply not possible. When a person dislikes me for my views on life, for my goals, for my opinions, then I don't mind them. It's only natural that I won't agree with everybody, and this alone shouldn't be something to make others dislike me - if they do, they're the ones locked in their judgement. However, if somebody seems to not like me for some other reason, I still get worried. I'd usually try to avoid being in the path of that person, since it doesn't like me. But there are times when the person who dislikes you is, for example, at your job, or at your university. Then, there is no other way: you have to act professional and carry on. Respectfully.