For you, young couples...

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@KnehKnah (3475)
Philippines
October 10, 2015 11:12am CST
Never waste your time arguing over petty things. Instead, resolve the issue with calm heads & emotions. Learn to forgive & forget. Never be "historical". There is more to enjoy in life than to push your very own self to destruction by being always mad & sad. Love life. You have but one.
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@allknowing (63271)
• India
11 Oct 15
But what you hear from these young couples in the real world, if you offer them advice is 'Don't lecture' May be you are safe here
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
11 Oct 15
If they tell me that, isn't it being rude to an elderly lady who just want a happier life for them, my dear? Ha! Ha! Ha!
@allknowing (63271)
• India
11 Oct 15
@KnehKnah Depends how close you are to them that they take the liberty to say that
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
11 Oct 15
@allknowing I agree with you, my dear.
• United States
11 Oct 15
so very true, but one needs a spouse who's with ya'n this 'f i fear it jest don't work :( 'course that means ya more'n likely made a bad choice, eh? big hugs 'n i keep ya in my heart.
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• United States
11 Oct 15
@KnehKnah seems such only applies if'n they get their way sadly. i dunno what all the yellin' 'n cursin' is fer myself. the hubs enjoys such confrontations, i jest walk 'way.... love ya!
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
3 Nov 15
@crazyhorseladycx Lab yah too! And yes, I also don't like arguing with anyone, my dearest Manay. If there is something which my dearly beloved & I can't agree on outright, we just talk about it. I believe that's the best attitude on anything with anyone. If Manoy Hubs seems to enjoy it maybe it's in his jest moment. He! He! He!
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• Philippines
20 Oct 15
thank you for your advice. For the line Never be "historical", i find this hard to abide. I find that i am a person who finds it really hard to forget the bad things that was done to me. For example, when my husband was still my bf, he cheated on me once and i never forget about it. So, sometimes, i would bring it up especially when i get mad at him about other things.
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
19 Nov 15
I know how you felt, my friend. But, I hope you still feel that love for him.
• Kolkata, India
11 Oct 15
Very good advice but their youth stands in the way of keeping their cool. They will get it over as they grow mature.
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
11 Oct 15
Thank you, my friend. Most of our young couples are impulsive & unreasonable. It will take years for them to appreciate the value of patience & understanding.
@amnabas (9907)
• Karachi, Pakistan
10 Oct 15
Great concised thread to lead a happy life.
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
10 Oct 15
Yes, my dear. Was inspired to write about this after reading a discussion about a sad relationship.
@boiboing (12198)
• Northampton, England
10 Oct 15
Absolutely true. No sense holding grudges
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
10 Oct 15
Yes, my dear. For me & my dearly beloved, that is proven & tested. But for young couples? OM!
@jaboUK (53541)
• United Kingdom
10 Oct 15
Good advice - we need to cherish those we love.
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
10 Oct 15
Indeed, my dear Momma! Thank you po!
@jstory07 (66068)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Oct 15
Life is to short to waste on arguing. you should trust each other and work everything out.
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
10 Oct 15
Very well said, my dear! Besides, to live peacefully with each other is the best gift you can give to yourself!
@LadyDuck (151986)
• Switzerland
10 Oct 15
You are so true, the life is to short to waste our time arguing. Enjoy your day.
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@KnehKnah (3475)
• Philippines
10 Oct 15
Precisely, my dear Anna! To love one another every breathing moment you have will make you very happy & fulfilled!
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