are you capable to say no?

Romania
October 17, 2015 7:00am CST
saying no it has always been a hard task for me. I don't know why but I always feel guilty if I refuse someone
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6 responses
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Oct 15
Yeah for me it is 200% applicable thing. Like all i too feel bad to refuse things.
• Romania
17 Oct 15
people have a way of making you feel guilty if you say no to them
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Oct 15
@swissheart completely agreeing to you my friend.
@MALUSE (40182)
• Germany
17 Oct 15
@swissheart No, that's the wrong perspective.You put the blame on other people instead of looking into yourself. Why do you feel guilty? You aren't anybody's slave, are you? I know people like you. They're mostly women. They complain of too much work but need the recognition and the praise they get for it. The lazy ones love them!
@softbabe44 (5902)
• Vancouver, Washington
17 Oct 15
yea i don't like saying no either its really hard to do but if you stick to it the better off your gonna be
• Romania
17 Oct 15
someone once told me that such people are toxic
• Vancouver, Washington
17 Oct 15
@swissheart i think mom was right
@cahaya1983 (10053)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 15
I hate saying no, but sometimes we just have to and not every time we do we have to feel bad about it. Otherwise it's easy for others to take advantage of us and that's wrong.
• Romania
18 Oct 15
yes indeeed.plus trying to please everyone is totally exhausting
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@amnabas (10282)
• Karachi, Pakistan
17 Oct 15
I can't say no to anyone which sometimes get me in trouble.
• Romania
17 Oct 15
what kind of trouble?
@wiLLmaH (8252)
• Singapore, Singapore
19 Oct 15
You need to day "no" sometimes.
@MALUSE (40182)
• Germany
17 Oct 15
I have no problem whatsoever with this. It has to do with self-confidence.