I feel like I am a loser.

@LLSummer (588)
Guizhou, China
November 12, 2015 7:46am CST
When I was a student , my teachers always told me you should work hard and someday you would get paid .so that I tried my best to learn everything my teachers asking for. every day I just spent most of time reading but nothing . but some of people around me called me a nerd .At that time I didn't understand why them called me like that and I just thought I was a good student. Why, why did I thought in that way ,perhaps , just because my teachers told me all the time if you wanted to be a excellent student ,the only thing you need to do is studying caring about nothing. While growing up , I realise something I just did wrong .there are a lots interesting thing in my life except reading , for instance , chating with my dear friends, companying with my family ,etc. Now I am so regret to foucs on studying but nothing . I have no skills for making money and have no money supporting my family .because of that I think I am a LOSER.
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11 responses
@joylol (148)
• Austin, Texas
13 Nov 15
A loser? Someone who opens up about the feelings in their heart is a loser? But the heart is the most valued existence. You don't sound like a loser to me. In fact, your awesome for actually opening up about your feelings, in any way possible, that being virtually or physically. Even if you end up broken, you'll still be an amazing person because broken crayons still love to color. However, now you have to find out what you wanna do in your life. You can't be thinking about what "should" of been as opposed to what "could and will" be. I've not been in your shoes so I'll try not to act like I know everything and I am not the omniscient perfection giver. This may seem like a strange command, but I guarantee it will help. I want you to take out a sheet of paper and write down I can't do this anymore.Cross out all the letters except for the first three ones and the last two. The word you end up with is I care. Having a heart is the best thing ever! Your not a loser. You're a winner. That made a mistake which brings you a step closer to victory of relating to others in their mistakes . ^_^
@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
13 Nov 15
Firstly I want to say THANK you for giving me so useful suggestion , and now I promise you that I will try my best to look on the bright side.
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
12 Nov 15
Oh please dont call yourself a loser, you sound like a great person with ambitions and wants to make something out of herself someday! I would ignore those kids that call you a nerd trust me you will have a better paying job and a more comfortable life than them if you continue on the path you are on. When I was in school I got really good grades and I studied hard and now I have an awesome job that I am proud of and those kids that teased me are either on welfare or struggling to make ends meet. keep up the good work
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@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
13 Nov 15
WOW, now I just want to tell you that I am so proud of you . From now on I will set a goal for myself becoming those people like you . PLUS: thanks.??
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
13 Nov 15
@LLSummer you are welcome, I just wanted to tell you that you are not alone there is a lot of people that go through that and it is okay. It might not feel like it is okay but if you stand back and look at the entire picture you will see it is not that bad. you need to focus on you and worry about you because no one else will, trust me :-) It will pay off in the end. What do you aspire to be someday?
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• Philippines
29 Jan 16
Back in my elementary days i accused the wrong person because my mom forced me to believe i was hurt some one when my fingers unknownly glide through the window and cause the cut. from then on i was bullied and called a mama's boy..i feared through out the remaining days of my elementary. i was known looser too, i think it still a bit scarce me to this day. i hope you willl learn to get over it and move on. we can never change the past my friend.
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@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
31 Jan 16
Yeah. no one can change the past. now the only thing we need to do is to move on and don't care about what others' say.
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@amadeo (65992)
• United States
12 Nov 15
You should never feel like this.You are not a loser.Thinking about negative remark is not good. Snap out of it and enjoy life.You are far too young to feel like this.
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@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
13 Nov 15
Thanks. I start to look on the bright side , I will try to work hard and oneday I will be successful.
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@youless (91539)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Nov 15
Nobody is perfect. And nobody can do the right thing all the time. If you realize you are wrong, it is never late to have a change. Sometimes we should be ourselves and ignore others' opinions. As they can be wrong. Have a faith in yourself.
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@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
12 Nov 15
I think what you just said is totally right and I will try to look brightside. Yeah, Do myself is so important. thank you again.
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@birjudanak (7243)
• India
31 Jan 16
no one is loser but people around you who think this for you are losers because we never judge people from study but from nature of their work and ability so dont think that dear,there are lot of people who not study well or not good in it but they are now richest and popular then other who study well.study is not everything but ability you have make you famous and successful.......
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@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
31 Jan 16
Thank you my friends.
@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
2 Feb 16
now. you must be so busy and you don't spend much money on mylot. but you must be know we all miss you so much my friends.
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• India
3 Feb 16
@LLSummer i know dear i miss u and all friends here but i have some problem with paypal so after receiveing my payment of 20 dollar then start again
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@cacay1 (32941)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Feb 16
You are not a loser, Never be negative about life. All you have to do is to strive more.
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@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
3 Feb 16
Thanks. my friend.
@Auntylou (4318)
• Oxford, England
17 Nov 15
You are clearly intelligent and ambitious. You will be a good employee, maybe you are not sure what to do , but try different things till you find out what suits you
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@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
31 Jan 16
Thanks. my friend I will try to do that.
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@Missmwngi (10035)
• Nairobi, Kenya
12 Nov 15
I don't think you are a loser at all
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@LLSummer (588)
• Guizhou, China
12 Nov 15
Thanks.
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• Thrissur, India
1 Feb 16
currently i am doing my college and i am trying to do my best to get good marks and i am doing it so that i can get a good job at the end of it. but the so called friends that i have keeps on calling me a nerd..........even today morning they called me the same..........BUT I JUST DON'T CARE........and when i get good grades that too grades better than those friends of mine ......i do feel good
@Auntylou (4318)
• Oxford, England
1 Feb 16
You have plenty of time for friends and a social life and you have great English language skills. You will find good work soon I am sure