Feeling Depressed

@else34 (13517)
New Delhi, India
November 17, 2015 7:51am CST
My niece's marriage is going to take place in a few days.I had to attend it.Last evening I was about to leave for the city where the ceremony was to be held. Suddenly a call from the hospital threw a spanner in works.A distant relative of mine had expired. Now I can't attend the marriage ceremony. Back from the funeral I am feeling sad and depressed. Don't know what to do.Even Mylot has not been unable to relieve me of depression.
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Shareef Munda
@babaraimc (1310)
• Pakistan
17 Nov 15
Depression is a completely Normal response to this situation, there is nothing wrong about being mad at this Time as you have been through a sad incident. you should not be worried about marriage, as you will have many more to attend Hope you will come out of your depression very soon and many prayers for your relative
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jaishankar
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
18 Nov 15
@babaraimc,Actually it all happened so suddenly and unexpectedly that we were shocked.Now as my journey is cancelled,I am trying to begin life afresh.You are right.I have a lot works to be done and I can't afford to succumb to depression.Thanks a lot for responding.
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jaishankar
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
18 Nov 15
@babaraimc Time is the greatest healer.And I know one thing,shocks and sorrows,difficulties and hardships help us grow stronger.I am recollecting myself.
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Shareef Munda
@babaraimc (1310)
• Pakistan
18 Nov 15
@else34 Losing some one is always a Shock, no one is ever prepared for that.. but i hope you will get over it soon
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Gudheart
@gudheart (12659)
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17 Nov 15
So sorry to hear of your loss :( I think that it is normal to go through such emotions during a loss. It does get easier with time. I pray you are able to get through it. try spending more time with family so you can all mourn together, it may help.
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jaishankar
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
18 Nov 15
@gudheart He was only 24.Was going to be married in May next year.
sofs
@sofssu (23662)
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17 Nov 15
Sorry for your loss. I guess its quite normal to go through feelings of sadness.. I guess you will cheer up in a few days.
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sofs
@sofssu (23662)
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18 Nov 15
@else34 That would have been terrible to leave a young wife alone.. I understand your feelings.. Your mind keeps going back and forth to what happened.. Its difficult but its normal so allow nature to take its course.
AbbyGreenhill
@AbbyGreenhill (45496)
• United States
18 Nov 15
That's a shame but i'm sure the bride and groom understand.
Jekca
@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
17 Nov 15
let yourself process the sad, it's fine to feel sad.
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jaishankar
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
18 Nov 15
@Jessicalynnt,You are right.Joys and sorrows in life are inevitable.We undergo them and grew stronger.I am trying again to take life in my stride and begin living afresh.
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paigea
@paigea (35621)
• Canada
26 Nov 15
I am so sorry for your loss. Take care
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jaishankar
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
27 Nov 15
@paigea,Yesterday my niece got married.I could not attend the ceremony.
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