Acceptance of the reality heals

Loneliness is like a disease not easy to cure.
@cacay1 (29558)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
November 21, 2015 2:56am CST
Yesterday , I shared you here about the infidelity of my Australian partner. It blew my heart and killed my constant happiness and inspiration. After 24 hours of feeling sick and powerless, I came up to a conclusion to accept the matter, for no matter what I do, the decision is not mind. I am subject of submission to what my partner would want to. If you love someone, give him freedom and liberty to decide what is best for him. I hope that regret won't come his way.I have learned from the other source, that the woman he wants to replace me is from a squatters area just pretending to be a woman of high education.That, I can no longer argue. I already fully loaded, too, my decision to move on my way. Should he tell me his journey to my country for the purpose of meeting a new interest, I could share him some suggestions and warnings,but it seems he is guilty this time.Until this day, no reply received from my partner.Meaning, the info is true. I don't know if my decision won't harm me .
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@SIMPLYD (72454)
• Philippines
24 Nov 15
If he is like that , then there's no use wasting your tears for him , my dear.
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@vandana7 (53493)
• India
5 Apr 16
Right advice.
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Apr 16
@SIMPLYD, Thank you friend.
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Apr 16
@vandana7 Very much appreciated advise my dear.
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@birjudanak (7168)
• India
21 Nov 15
I feel sorry for you that your partner have do behind you and why he has gone are you ever ask him?
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Nov 15
The worst is, we already filed for a partnership visa, so we can marry there, too painful and injurious,It seems I lost my face value.What a cruel world.
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• India
22 Nov 15
@cacay1 if you are right then dont fear everything happened good because we not do any wrong and if you think he cheated you then forget him and start new journey and feel that he never came. i know its hard but you must have to go ahead.
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Nov 15
@birju danak,I asked him why he cheated me, until today got no reply from him .I sent the message thru his Facebook window Skype and YM.
@slund2041 (3497)
• United States
21 Nov 15
If he doesn't have regret then you need to move on. I am so sorry for what you are going through.
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Nov 15
Yes, my dear @slund2041,I have to move on.I have to look at the world as having a bigger problem than mine.Take care,
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@slund2041 (3497)
• United States
22 Nov 15
@cacay1 I do feel for you and sorry you are suffering. I hate to see you hurt.
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Nov 15
@slund2041 Thank you for your sympathy,the feeling of being cheated is explainable, but I have to be strong despite pain and loss of love. .
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@vandana7 (53493)
• India
5 Apr 16
For a long time I have now thought we need a change in social system. Marriage and permanence should only come when the partners feel ready for it meaning they want babies, and bring them up all the way 20 odd years. Otherwise, emotional and physical liberties should be there both ways. That way there will be less heartache around.
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Apr 16
@vandana, Your suggestion is very vital to us all.Love must be the strong foundation why marry.
@Vivenda (609)
• Portsmouth, England
21 Nov 15
It's so sad when a relationship breaks up! My daughter's going through similar heartache at the moment.
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Nov 15
As of this moment, I am still in despair. I am seeking justice...this is an injury that may not cease so soon..Thanks.
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@suzzy3 (8401)
21 Nov 15
I am so sorry to hear your partner has moved on. Brush yourself down and do the same , but only when you are ready. We have all had our hearts broken and it is not very nice.
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Nov 15
Very true, until now my tears fall for the injury that cannot immediately be healed.Thnaks friend for your comfort,very much appreciated @syzzy3.
@ridingbet (31577)
• Philippines
21 Nov 15
I hope he will have a turn and change of heart.
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Nov 15
I hope, I spend sleepless nigts.
@epiffanie (8138)
• Australia
21 Nov 15
Let yourself go as far away from him ..You'll be better off in the end..
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Nov 15
Think you friend for your kind consolation to my despair @Bess.
@Lucky15 (31675)
• Philippines
21 Nov 15
Aww..
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@cacay1 (29558)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Nov 15
The feeling sucks@Reine25