Who is the person who can make you a broken heart? / myLot

Indonesia

December 3, 2015 11:03pm CST

Of course, the answer is the one you love. It is indeed ironic, where the one we are very love is able to make us a broken heart, shattered, depression and even die. Actually, those we love or love itself that makes us a broken heart, depression and even die? What do you think about this?

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sweetloveforeve

@sweetloveforeve (13107)

• Portugal

6 Dec 15

a person that can break our heart is someone that we really love or are starting to love. everyone already had their heart broken at least once. thats how we learn and how we grow up as a better person. but sure it hurts as hell. im tired of getting my heart broken and for once i just wanted to be happy with no dramas.

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srisahara

@srisahara (4508)

• Indonesia

10 Dec 15

Yes, everyone had a broken heart, at least once in their life, and everyone had a special way to cope it. Yes, broken heart it hurt as hell. I hope you will get the best man who love your without dramas.

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sweetloveforeve

@sweetloveforeve (13107)

• Portugal

11 Dec 15

@srisahara yes i really hope that i can meet a guy who loves me for real. im so sick of meeting guys that tell me they love me and in the end they never care. thats why its hard for me to trust in words. i should believe only in actions. words anyone can say it and it doesnt prove anything.

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srisahara

@srisahara (4508)

• Indonesia

12 Dec 15

@sweetloveforeve I know it is hard to find a good man who loves you not only in his mouth but also in real action. But, don't give up, you will find him, someday later...

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makingpots

@makingpots (11915)

• United States

4 Dec 15

Yes it is true. People with the most access to our hearts (the ones we love) are more likely to be the ones to hurt us. If we didn't care it wouldn't hurt so bad. Personally, I choose to love and take the chance on being hurt. It seems better than the alternative for me.

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srisahara

@srisahara (4508)

• Indonesia

5 Dec 15

Totally agree with you, people who most access our heart has most potential to hurt us. For me, I prefer to be loved than to love, if I tend to love I have a big chance to broken heart if somebody I love cheat me.

Lee Ka

@kaka135 (14916)

• Malaysia

4 Dec 15

Yes, I agree with you, because those are the people we care and love the most. I have been learning to detach and be mindful. I think we can still love them, care for them very much, but not being affected by them emotionally.

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srisahara

@srisahara (4508)

• Indonesia

4 Dec 15

Yes, you are right be careful with our emotion is the best way to avoid broken heart from those we love.

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Pallavi Tiwari

@Tiwaripallavi (1)

• India

4 Dec 15

i agree with you sri. in 99% cases the reason of broken heart is always the person whom you love and care most. and it is sad to say that this pain does not go very quickly. it takes time to heal and we will definitely need some healing. sometimes the person who broke your heart is the only person who can fix it. its not always easy to move on. the only help is to fix yourself. be smart and try to fix yourself before someone else broke your heart again

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@srisahara (4508)

• Indonesia

4 Dec 15

Yes, a broken heart need much time to relieve it. Move on is the easy term to said but very difficult to done. I have experienced broken heart by my boyfriend and difficult to move on. Healing by myself is the best ...