That Was Then And This Is Now!
By WorDazza
@WorDazza (15833)
Manchester, England
December 4, 2015 4:18am CST
There is currently an informational advert on UK television warning children of the dangers of sending compromising pictures of themselves to friends/acquaintances as a bit of a laugh. It got me thinking about how things have changed since I was a youngster.
These days, with a few button presses you can expose yourself to a global audience within seconds. During my childhood these sort of things were limited to a quick "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" session behind the bike sheds. If you required a wider audience then it usually required a dirty raincoat, a visit to the local park and humiliation when the local girls pointed, laughed and screeched "Is that all you've got?"
Even less furtive pastimes were a complete minefield. These days, a romance can blossom via phone, text and social media access from the comfort, safety and, most importantly, privacy of a bedroom. As a teenager, the only phone I had access to was connected to a land-line and placed in a prominent position in the sitting room. Whispering sweet nothings to my latest girlfriend wasn't really an option when it would have to be conducted against a backdrop of The Black and White Minstrel Show blaring from the TV and my big sister trying to wrestle the mouthpiece away from me to make exaggerated kissing noises down it!!
The only other option was the public phone box. And where I lived, more often than not, it was no option. Assuming it hadn't been vandalised beyond use it was difficult to hold a romantic conversation with the wind whistling through the broken glass and the local drunk trying to evict me as he needed to go to the toilet.
Modern communication technology may be blamed for many of society's ills. But it doesn't half make life easier for the current day Romeo and Juliet!!
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
4 Dec 15
@boiboing Typical. You never used to respond to my phone calls either. Unless your cards had the wrong number printed on them.
The title is purely coincidental. Is it too late to pretend it was cleverly thought out to tie in the subject of the post with the period I was in my mid to late teens? I'm sure if I say nothing then everyone will think it was!!
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
4 Dec 15
Tbh, I always think you don't know a person fully until you've met them in real life. The online persona can be very misleading.
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
4 Dec 15
@WorDazza Lol, well I befriended a guy a while back who claimed to be 36years old, later on I found out he was erm 53. It kinda makes you wonder....
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
5 Dec 15
@Drosophila You've got to give him some credit for trying to pull that one off!!!
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@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
8 Dec 15
Good golly I'm glad that phone booths are a thing of the past . Thanks for the laugh. Our phone was on the wall right by the stairs with a door to the basement. We sat on the top step and whispered sweet nothings in private.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
8 Dec 15
Did your phone have one of this ridiculously long cords that you always see on 1970s and 1980s US TV programmes? They would have been useful in our house. I could have left the phone in the living room and took the receiver upstairs to my bedroom!!
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
9 Dec 15
@PainsOnSlate We used to have a party line when we first got a phone in the late 1960s. We were always suspicious that our neighbours were listening in. They probably felt the same about us though!!!
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@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
8 Dec 15
@WorDazza We had a pretty long cord but not that long. we had a party line because we were in the country, our neighbors were on the same line and often picked up the phone and listened to our conversations. When offered a single line dad paid the extra money to stop the nosy neighbors who lived about a half mile from our house. If we picked up the phone and found them on it we apologized and hung up - not them...
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
10 Dec 15
Yeah, that's beginning to happen over here too.
While I agree romance can blossom via text, social media etc. I think it causes trouble in a relationship quite quickly. 30 years ago if you went out with your mates your other half had no way of contacting you. You could have a night out in peace. Now the contact is 24/7 and that's not good for any relationship!!!
@allknowing (130066)
• India
5 Dec 15
Nothing that you described happened in my good old days. We were good children - no other way being watched by our elders for every nonroutine move we decided to take.
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@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
4 Dec 15
I must agree with you on the last line of this discussion. It doesn't make it easier. In fact, it makes it harder. Modern technology had made everything so easy that courtship is starting to be extinct and sweet nothings can be sent to a dozen other people on the phone book.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
5 Dec 15
What I wouldn't have given for a mobile phone when I was young. I had two sisters older than me and getting time on our landline was as rare as hen's teeth. Even then we were supposed to wait for our boyfriends to ring us, as our parents weren't keen on big phone bills
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@GreatMartin (23677)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
6 Dec 15
What goes on now went on back in our time but it was kept quiet and not talked about in public!
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@ElizabethWallace (12074)
• United States
5 Dec 15
I don't know if the problem is technology, or the state of morals among the younger set.