Rain or Shine, Mom is Always the First To Wake Up

@salonga (27775)
Philippines
December 5, 2015 1:01am CST
I woke up to a cold, rainy Saturday morning. Peeking at my garden, I saw my plants enjoying the gentle showers of rain. I am happy I need not water the plants. While my husband is still curling in bed, I started my daily morning routine. I have lots of chores that must be accomplished. When I was a child, my Mom was always the first to wake up in the morning. Even while it was still dark, she would start doing the chores quietly before waking us up for breakfast. History indeed repeats itself. Now it is my turn to be the first to wake up each morning. I can see my own Mom in me. Are you the first to wake up in the morning?
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
5 Dec 15
My husband is always up before me, but we are retired so we can please ourselves.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
When you are retired and have no more small kids we have the choice.
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@JudyEv (325598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Dec 15
We are still drinking toasts to being retired. It is just the best time.
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@JudyEv (325598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Dec 15
I always used to be the first up when I had young children. Mostly I'm still the first out of bed.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
A wonder how it is if we can't wake up earlier than our little kids.
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@JudyEv (325598)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Dec 15
@salonga If you don't wake up before the little kids they either come in and wake you up or they get into mischief.
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@CRanney (437)
• Wingham, Ontario
5 Dec 15
@JudyEv Ya I was going to say or you walk into the kitchen and find the kitchen floor turned into a cereal bowl. LOL I remember those days
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@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 15
My mom was always the one who woke up first. I used to be the first who woke up in the morning, as I woke up very early in the morning to do my work before the children got up. Now that I am pregnant, I always wake up late. Sometimes it's my son who wakes me up in the morning. Sometimes if I don't feel well in the morning, my children just play on their own while I continue to sleep. My mom has never been this lazy before, even when she was sick.
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@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 15
@salonga Thanks. Though sometimes I feel bad about being lazy, I am happy to see my two young children are quite independent too. I see they can take care of themselves even I am not around. I have read that, when the mother is very hardworking, the children might become lazy. When the mother is lazy, the children will be more hardworking. Though the author doesn't encourage the mothers to be lazy, it encourages the mothers not to do everything, but to give chance to the children to do work.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Dec 15
@kaka135 We ought to teach our children to do chores as well.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
Your Mom is a great parent. You are pregnant so it is understandable that you have those so called lazy days.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
7 Dec 15
Yes, on weekdays , i am always the first one . Then my husband . If the in-laws are here , the third is my mother-in-law . Oh , father-in-law is the first one to wake up because when i pass by his room , he is watching DVD at his dvd player . Then he would sleep again .
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
Your father in law must have been awake the whole night lol and just sleep in the morning after watching DVDs.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Dec 15
@salonga Yes, precisely that's what happened .
@TheHorse (205609)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Dec 15
Funny how we all become our parents in some way or another.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
I think it is because they became our role model.
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@TheHorse (205609)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Dec 15
@salonga I agree. That's how I see it.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
I always wake up when I have my duty, at 4:30AM. I don't wake my son up because he puts his cell phone on alarm mode.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
A health care provider wakes up early to respond to the call of duty. You have a noble job.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Dec 15
@salonga indeed, but even though I am early in the area, some staff nurses arrive late because they know the outgoing staff nurses have not yet finished their tasks. Endorsement should begin at 6:45AM; it starts at 7:30AM.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
5 Dec 15
True dear, we can't enjoy the sleep in the cold morning being a responsible mother. Our responsibilities wake us up and asked to do the duties. We enjoyed the freedom in our childhood, not any more.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
Exactly my friend, our responsibilities prompt us to get up whether we like it or not. Those who have no kids can still enjoy the luxury of staying late in bed but if you have kids and a hands on Mom, it is not possible anymore.
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@dodo19 (47049)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
5 Dec 15
On the weekends, I'm usually the first one to get up. During the week, my husband has to get at 5:30. I'm usually up not much longer after that. As soon as my kids are up, so am I.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Dec 15
Your husband has to be up that early because of his job?
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
8 Dec 15
Yes, I used to be the first to wake in the morning and the last one to go to bed when my children were little.. But it's just me and my husband now so I don't have to wake up that early anymore.. Especially now that we are retired ..
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
9 Dec 15
Retirement gives us the liberty to sleep and rise at whatever time we so desire.
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@LadyDuck (457918)
• Switzerland
5 Dec 15
Sometimes my husband get up before I do, but I am always the one who prepares breakfast.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
My husband wakes up ahead of me only when he has early morning appointment.
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• United States
6 Dec 15
I am the first and the last. I live by myself.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Dec 15
You are free to sleep as much as you want.
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@CRanney (437)
• Wingham, Ontario
5 Dec 15
Yes I am and I really enjoy the quiet time. I find a lot of gratitude in the morning for some reason.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
Me too, I love my quiet time in the early morning.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
5 Dec 15
I don't think the house moves until mom does.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Dec 15
True!
@Driftr (201)
• Coimbatore, India
5 Dec 15
Mostly I'm out of bed only after my parents. Mom is the first one to wake up as usual.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Dec 15
That is mostly the case in many home.
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@pumpkinjam (8537)
• United Kingdom
4 Jun 17
Sometimes I am first up, sometimes not. It's only me and the youngest at home most of the time. I used to get up first and wake him and his brother before he moved out. Now, sometimes I get up first but sometimes my son does. We stay with my partner on a Saturday and he likes to make sure I have a lie in. It doesn't always happen but most Sundays, I get to be the last one up!
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• United Kingdom
8 Jun 17
@salonga I used to always be the first one up but since my boys are growing up and able to do more for themselves, and I have a lovely partner who appreciates how hard I work during the week and likes to look after me!
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
Even on Sundays, I am still the first to wake up because I had to prepare early so we could all eat breakfast before we go to church.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
@pumpkinjam it's so nice to know that!
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
19 Jan 16
I am always the first to get up in the morning. Though I have to say this morning my hubs got up first.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Jan 16
My husband wakes up earlier than I do only when he has to finish something really urgent.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
5 Dec 15
Yes. I don't sleep well so I am up between 4-5am every morning. My brother doesn't get up until 7am.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
11 Dec 15
In my family we seem to take turns, some mornings my Mom will be awake first, some mornings my sister and I will be awake first. When we were children our Mom was always awake first too. :-)
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
Good that you have your Mom and sister with you.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
11 Dec 15
@salonga , thank you, I am blessed and lucky that I do.
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@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
10 Dec 15
Our kids are grown and its just the two of us. Hubby wakes up first and goes to the gym, then I wake up and go to the computer...
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
It is different when kids are grown up. Wives are no more obliged to wake up early.
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• Canada
11 Dec 15
@salonga And that's the truth!
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
Nope. Haha. Well if my siblings are around, my sister always wkes up first. Me, maybe kinda late. Haha
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
Lucky girl! lol!
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