What would you do if you caught your lover cheating on you?
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
Portugal
December 5, 2015 8:56am CST
Hi guys 
What would you do if you caught your lover cheating on you?
I don't know what I would do but I would probably stand in chock. I would sure get separated from him even I loved him because I wouldnt forget that image ever. So I couldnt take it to give him a second chance.
What about you guys? What would you do? Beat him up?
Please share 
What would you do if you caught your lover cheating on you?
I don't know what I would do but I would probably stand in chock. I would sure get separated from him even I loved him because I wouldnt forget that image ever. So I couldnt take it to give him a second chance.
What about you guys? What would you do? Beat him up?
Please share 9 people like this
10 responses
@totobasso (331)
• Canada
6 Dec 15
I would erase the "l" in lover and it would be over. 
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
yes that would be the best thing to do. but i really hope that it doesnt happen to you ever and that you have a good lover. we all deserve to find someone good who loves us for real. and not a player. if a guy wants to play than he should stay single instead of playing with girls like they are dolls.
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
@totobasso aw im so sorry that you always ended up being cheated on but im sure that one day you will meet someone special. and yes i agree with you. guys and girls are both cheaters. it depends on the person and not on the gender. anyway i wish you all the best
but im sure that one day you will meet someone special. and yes i agree with you. guys and girls are both cheaters. it depends on the person and not on the gender. anyway i wish you all the best 2 people like this
@totobasso (331)
• Canada
6 Dec 15
@sweetloveforeve There is no difference between men and women when it comes to cheating. So far I have never had one that didn't eventually cheat. I endure being alone for many years now as the pain of an unfaithful loyal is terrible for me. My level of trust in people is very low when it comes to certain things. Be careful with your heart and with your money. All the best!
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32507)
• Calgary, Alberta
6 Dec 15
I will cheat too with someone hotter and prettier?
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
i see what you mean. and i understand the feeling of revenge. but i dont think the person would be worth of your time and pain. the best would be to just break up and dont see that person ever again. it was only a waste of time the time you spent with that person.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
@Rationalwriter ahah i dont doubt that he would do that at all when guys are angry they just think with the lower head 
when guys are angry they just think with the lower head 
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
6 Dec 15
If I really know my partner well, there would be no such problem. Specially if I know he can be trusted. With what your picture says, the boy was in shock. So, it is the girl who intentionally do the act. There are only few gentlemen nowadays and it is better to look for one who you can trust wholeheartedly. Real men can't be stolen. Remember that! :)
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
6 Dec 15
@sweetloveforeve well, if that person really loves you truly, he will not do such a thing. I knew guys who are really loyal to their partners even if they are born to get tempted, if they know the difference between right and wrong, they will stick to it no matter what specially their dignity is at stake here.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
what i mean here is for example you were working and you arrive home and you see your husband having se*x with other woman. you would still be with him after seeing something like that? because it isnt a kiss that maybe it could be her kissing him and he couldnt stop her. im talking about the act. no one forced him to it. wouldnt you put him out of your house?
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Dec 15
I would leave him and not look back. I don't think I could handle such a heart break.
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
i would do the same as you i couldnt take such a thing. i wouldnt ask anything to him because i mean if he cheated is because he didnt love me as i thought he did. seeing that with my own eyes i think i wouldnt be able to forget that ever in my life. even if i met someone in the future. that would haunt me forever
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
@annavi23 you would ask him? but i mean if you catch him in the act. with the person in a bed. you would make questions? i would just run away from there. i cant imagine how i would feel after seeing something like that. i would feel disgust of him.
@Rationalwriter (1813)
• Lucknow, India
5 Dec 15
End of the Relationship. Period.
If I am trusting my partner to let her have her own space, then there is no room for such an act!!
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
yes you are right 
if we give our time, care and respect to someone we deserve the same back. and arriving home and seeing a scene like that is a disrespect for you. no one deserves that kind of treatment. we need someone who makes us feel happy and not miserable.
if we give our time, care and respect to someone we deserve the same back. and arriving home and seeing a scene like that is a disrespect for you. no one deserves that kind of treatment. we need someone who makes us feel happy and not miserable.1 person likes this
@Rationalwriter (1813)
• Lucknow, India
6 Dec 15
@sweetloveforeve You are absolutely right!!
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
im happy you wouldnt be with the person. i mean if the person cheated is because didnt really love you. if a guy does that is because he doesnt love you. so it would be only lying to ourselves if we were on that situation. and for me thats not love its obsession. because how can be happy with a guy after seeing him with another girl in front of us? 
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Jun 16
I wou ld show him the door do leave and do not let it hit you in the butt good b ye/
@flapiz (22402)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 15
Trust is very important in a relationship once it's broken it can't be easily mended. If my future partner would cheat on me I'd lose that trust and I don't think he could ever get it back. I'd end the relationship. It's better to be single than to be cheated on. I believe that I am good enough and I'd want a partner who see me as the one.
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Dec 15
yes for sure 
we deserve better than a guy who has no respect for us. how could we be with someone we caught on the act with another girl? i wouldnt be able to forget it. we dont know how many times it happened already and if he was with her and then with us after it it would be like one of the worst things that could happen to me.
we deserve better than a guy who has no respect for us. how could we be with someone we caught on the act with another girl? i wouldnt be able to forget it. we dont know how many times it happened already and if he was with her and then with us after it it would be like one of the worst things that could happen to me.
@birjudanak (14319)
• India
7 Dec 15
if my love cheated me then first i ask her that why she do love me and now with other and if she really love other then what was purpose to love me,because it very hurt while they do this thing.if she tell from her mouth then leave her with broken heart otherwise we have no choice.but some person beat that man even his wife mistake.but i not that kind of person just leave her because this mistake was not small;
