The Accidental Godmother
@SIMPLYD (90722)
Philippines
December 10, 2015 9:34pm CST
I was having second thoughts in attending the wedding of my boss’ brother who is a co-affiliate while the bride is a former office mate .
But yesterday , through the prodding of my office mates who made me feel guilty of saying yes to the mother of my boss to attend it , I decided to just go .
I was in our Thursday uniform though, but since it’s a whole dress and I am in my high heeled shoes , I thought it is also apt for the occasion . I just put on my peach shawl.
My officemates and I were at the back pews .
When the time for the principal sponsors (godparents ) to sign in the marriage contract , one of the godmothers was absent .
Thus , the groom had me called in front and let me sign on their marriage contracts instead .
Gosh , I was shocked because I was just there to attend the wedding not in the least expecting that I will be an “accidental godmother “ , much to the laughter of my office mates .
But anyway , I love to be their godmother , even in an accidental way .
Now , they call me "ninang" (the Tagalog word for godmother ).
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@birjudanak (14319)
• India
11 Dec 15
its good that you sign it and they see you a responsible person and they have trust ton you.here in India only relative to do sign.
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@birjudanak (14319)
• India
11 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD yes but here it allow so its good we have more relatives ha ah
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
11 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD Well,it did turn out fine didn't it?You were not going for the wedding.Then you went and ended up as the Godmother!
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
11 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD Well,'' all's well that ends well''.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32507)
• Calgary, Alberta
29 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD That is why many godparents here hide from their God children every Christmas
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Dec 15
@CaptAlbertWhisker You are so correct ! But i think when they grow older it's them already who gives a gift to their godparents .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
@sofssu Indeed . We were actually outside the church and looking at the entourage and teasing each one as they pass by us as they go inside the church . They were after all , mostly our co-affiliates , with the bride a former office mate of ours and the groom a co-affiliate of ours too .
The other girls are co-affiliates of us and at one time my office mates .
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Dec 15
Indeed , i was so happy that i went with my officemates . I never expected to be an accidental godmother .
@DeborahDiane (40055)
• Laguna Woods, California
11 Dec 15
I love the picture. It sounds like you were happy you went to the wedding.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
so will the wedding gift be 'to follow'?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
Yes, i was happy because i get to be their godmother even accidentally .
And the wedding was very nice as well as the reception too .
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
I am the godmother of my godchild who got married many years ago, and also a colleague when she got married, several years ago too.
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@marijuana (570)
• Tel Aviv, Israel
11 Dec 15
Hello Ninang :) so you had the wedding pictures in your work uniform :)
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Dec 15
Yes, that's actually our uniforms . I juts put on the shawl to make it not so obviosu. The rest of my officemates and co-affiliates were ready .
They went to the office in civilian dress already whch they have previously asked for permission of.