In the middle of ending a serious Relationship
By Shweta
@shweta292 (29)
India
December 14, 2015 4:23am CST
I have been in a 5yr relationship with the man I love, respect and admire alot. We both had alot of fights, arguements and discussions in the past 5 years. But from all these things our relationship was getting better and better day by day, atleast I thought so.
But day before yesterday we were in the middle of discussion and when the arguement started we both don't know and we end up having a huge fight.
Yesterday, for the very first time he said "we should think again about this relationship before getting into a serious commitment". Everytime we had a serious fight he was the only one who always wanted to make things right, but yesterday I saw a doubt in him which is very hurting.
Therefore, I feel I should let him free because it would be good for both of us in the long run. The hardest thing is to forget him as I still love him alot.
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2 responses
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 15
I am sorry to hear what's happening to you. 5 years isn't short period. probably you need some calm time before you decide anything or even think for the what's next. it's not just simply over. probably you should talk more. I don't see clearly what's been happening. but this post implied that you like to assume things. sometimes, men aren't that complicated. we women tend to make things complicated. maybe you should openly talk what you are feeling what you want from him what you want from this relationship you have. please, don't expect them to understand what's inside you without you telling them straight. they are not psychic nor character in movies.
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@shweta292 (29)
• India
14 Dec 15
We tried everything...but according to him I support him but I dont give my input in anything to make things work out. And yes you are right the main problem with me is I assume things and most of the times that only is reason of our fights. I dont get it, what should I do to make things work out. On the other side dont wana ruin his life or make things more complicated for him. Just cant figure out the right thing to do. 
@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Dec 15
Maybe both of you should spend sometimes separately and think about it
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@shweta292 (29)
• India
14 Dec 15
May be you are right. I think I should give him some space n by the time we would get time to think again for the next step.
