What do you think makes a person attractive?

Spring Mount, Pennsylvania
December 21, 2015 5:49pm CST
I've mostly been researching why men and women do what they do together or apart and the social and physical reactions to relationships. It's really crazy actually, apparently what makes you physically attractive is completely subconscious. What makes a person attractive usually has to do with how symmetrical their face and body is and their proportions. Supposedly, it means you have good genetics and subconsciously to the opposite sex it means that you will bear/give healthy babies that will also pass on your genetics. What do you think makes a person attractive?
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@moffittjc (34702)
• Gainesville, Florida
22 Dec 15
For me, the person I'm attracted to has to have a warm personality. I don't care how beautiful a girl is, if she doesn't have a great personality then I'm not into her.
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• Spring Mount, Pennsylvania
22 Dec 15
Thank god! No one believes me when I say that lol You could be the most attractive person in the world but if you're a meanie, you're ugly instantly lol
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• Spring Mount, Pennsylvania
22 Dec 15
@moffittjc Oh I'm married I know the feeling lol Things settle down and you find what you really want in a person after a while.
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@moffittjc (34702)
• Gainesville, Florida
22 Dec 15
@Coffinspire92 And hopefully it doesn't take 2-3 tries at marriage to figure it all out! lol
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@LoriAMoore (9687)
• United States
22 Dec 15
Honesty, responsibility, and a sense of humor.
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@vandana7 (57187)
• India
23 Dec 15
And decent sense of humor not vulgar type.
@TheHorse (51565)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Dec 15
Sense of humor always scores high on "what attracts you?" tests!
@wiLLmaH (8167)
• Singapore, Singapore
22 Dec 15
I am attracted to a person with witty and humorous personality
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@dpk262006 (53850)
• Delhi, India
22 Dec 15
Oh! Really?
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@wiLLmaH (8167)
• Singapore, Singapore
22 Dec 15
Wahaha! I hate you @dpk262006!
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@dpk262006 (53850)
• Delhi, India
22 Dec 15
@wiLLmaH Sorry you can't hate me straight away because if you say - "I hate you" ...... then you are confessing that you loved me earlier but now you hate me.
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@Dalane (705)
• United States
22 Dec 15
There are many factors that determine attractiveness and thank goodness for that. .
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@dpk262006 (53850)
• Delhi, India
22 Dec 15
What are those factors?
@Dalane (705)
• United States
23 Dec 15
@dpk262006 Well, I think that in addition to physical attributes, intelligence, kindness, humor, wit, conversational abilities, talent, a good disposition, confidence, and many, many more traits make a person attractive.
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@dpk262006 (53850)
• Delhi, India
23 Dec 15
@Dalane - Yes, I completely agree with you that physical attributes, intelligence, kindness, humor, wit, conversational abilities, talent, a good disposition and confidence etc. are important to attract the other person. Those who do not have confidence and guts to talk to other person, cannot attract him/her.
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@dpk262006 (53850)
• Delhi, India
22 Dec 15
One's positive attitude and cheerful disposition are very important to attract the other person.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
22 Dec 15
There are folks who have something in them that makes them stand out from the rest. Maybe it is the way they carry themselves.
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@TRBRocks420 (60871)
• Banks, Oregon
22 Dec 15
I think that is probably right for a lot of people, but I look for something a lot more than physical attraction. I look for someone who is nice, smart, funny and, loyal.
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@moffittjc (34702)
• Gainesville, Florida
22 Dec 15
I think a sense of humor is a must! I like a partner who can look on the bright side of things and see the humor in just about any situation!
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@TRBRocks420 (60871)
• Banks, Oregon
22 Dec 15
@moffittjc Yes, I agree a good sense of humor goes a long ways and, positive thinking.
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• United States
22 Dec 15
I think loyalty to ones own moral compass, compassion scale and whether the individual knows 'how to think' rather than following 'what to think' makes them very appealing, from a personality perspective at least. Hello btw and have a very Merry Christmas and thanks for sharing this @Coffinspire92
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• Calgary, Alberta
22 Dec 15
I won't be a hypocrite so I will say Physical attraction does matter but It will be amplified by personality. I find someone who have a great personality and also interest really intriguing. I do believe beauty is skin deep but people should still give effort in looking good because if you look good, you feel good,
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• Spring Mount, Pennsylvania
22 Dec 15
I'm glad you can recognize that. I really can't be attracted to someone that I'm not physically attracted to AND attracted to their personality. I guess I'm weird :/
• Calgary, Alberta
23 Dec 15
@Coffinspire92 There are attractive people though who are physically attractive but I dont find attractive but their personality were either despicable or bland. I dont find those people attractive. I am not a perfectionist but I do look for an almost complete package.
@Drosophila (16862)
• Ireland
22 Dec 15
I love intellect, am a sucker for intelligence and a naughty sense of humour. Then a big heart.
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@shshiju (9189)
• Cochin, India
30 Jan 16
Good behave, care for others , Strong mind all are included in a great personality person.
@Scindhia (1981)
• Chennai, India
7 Jan 16
Integrity and a sense of humor are attractive qualities.
@FREE_GUY (30)
24 Dec 15
I believe more than anything it's the confidence...with the right amount of confidence you can woo anyone anytime.
@TheHorse (51565)
• Pleasant Hill, California
23 Dec 15
You're talking physical beauty there. But what makes a person attractive after they've passed the pretty/handsome enough test probably varies a lot person to person. For me, it has a lot to do with how curious they are about things, and whether I feel supported yet challenged when we have conversations.
@tallawah (7248)
• Kingston, Jamaica
22 Dec 15
I think it is the presentation, the confidence, the radiating of charm.
22 Dec 15
When I was still single, I find men who are tall, smart and confident attractive.Also, I have a soft spot for men who are soft-spoken and chivalrous.However, if the man has these qualities but does not know how to treat a woman appropriately, it is a major turn off.
• United States
22 Dec 15
To me I think the attitude in some one that is fro me if it is a bad attitude and always mean and loud mouthed and full of them selves? I hate that! I don't think for me looks have anything to do with making someone attractive, I think it would be a nice personality and know how to jole around and not be serious all the time!