A Surprise Gift For Her

Shirt and selfie stick
@trivia79 (7828)
El Segundo, California
January 26, 2016 4:10pm CST
There is this special woman in my life and in my heart I love her despite of our complex situation (I can't disclose this) I always pray to God that I hope she is the one for me. That God hopefully destined us to love each other and live through our lifetime. Well, she came into my life in the most unexpected way. The time in which i don't expect any love life to spice up my life anymore. She said that she loves me. But the past few weeks, she seems holding back to say it but I still know that she loves me. One day, while we our chatting, she sent me a photo of a shirt that she wants. Without further questions, i told her that i will buy it for her but i don't know when it will be in her hands. As I'm searching for a shirt online, i also saw her comment on a selfie stick product. Without her knowledge, I also bought it for her and delivered it to her (via the seller). According to her, she was so shocked and very happy about my present to her. She became instant famous in the hotel where she is working (part of her scholarship program). Her co-workmates talked about her and her manager even teased her haha I'm happy whenever I make her happy.
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27 responses
• United States
26 Jan 16
This is very special and precious Adam. You are a perfect guy!!! I hope that all your wishes will come true with this woman that you love as she loves you. I really like that she was instantly famous because of your kind gift lolz It is always nice for a woman to show off to her work mates. I know I remember.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
26 Jan 16
Yah! thanks! I feel that I'm really the perfect guy for him but it's not yet the perfect time yet, perhaps. I'm really praying every night that the dream of my life and of my heart become true.
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• United States
26 Jan 16
@trivia79 I hope it will not be long Adam.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
26 Jan 16
@TiarasOceanView Me too...hoping... that's the most painful part in hoping, there's no assurance
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
27 Jan 16
That is so sweet of you indeed. I am sure she is so endeared to you now because of that gesture . So, are now officially "on" ?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
27 Jan 16
@trivia79 Then continue to surprise her like that .
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
it's not YET. It's a long long journey for that point... all i can do now is...wait, wait, wait while hoping
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
@SIMPLYD like that? oh no! i can't sustain it... i don't have so much money for that. we are far away from each other that's why i'm just sending her gifts through courier.
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@Teep11 (7674)
• United States
27 Jan 16
That was so nice. I'm sure she felt all warm inside with the gifts.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
yes! I'm pretty sure also. haayst...she's so loveable!
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
26 Jan 16
That's what love is - making the other person happy.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
yah! even though sometimes, your happiness is at stake
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
26 Jan 16
Glad she liked her gift
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
26 Jan 16
@trivia79 Everyone likes to be surprised from time to time
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
@Elizaby Especially girls/woman. Of course, surprises in good way.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
26 Jan 16
yes! and it's not the first time that i surprised her.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
27 Jan 16
Whatever you are doing for her it is really very sweet of you.You are perfect for her and she will feel the love you have for her for sure.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
28 Jan 16
@trivia79 Have patience friend.Things take time.Go slowly with the flow and things will occur.
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
Thank you! I appreciate that! I really think and have very strong feeling that i'm perfect for her...we're perfect for each other. But it's not yet the perfect time. haaayst...Life!
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
28 Jan 16
@shubhu3 yeah! i'm still young and willing to wait. as long as she needed me and she's not the one who insist to get out of her life, I will wait.... well, the waiting part is the most crucial though
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@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
27 Jan 16
You are very sweet and thoughtful person @trivia79 She is one very lucky girl to have you in her life.
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@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
27 Jan 16
@trivia79 Whatever the complications might be and however serious they might be for you ... i hope they all will be resolved soon so she can fully give her love and attention to you and your relationship.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
@mammots i know you are very positive with your comment but as i'm reading it over and over again, i get so sad.. "...will be resolved soon so she can fully give her love and attention to you and your relationship..." haayst! I hope and i really pray to God
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
yes! indeed! I'm lucky too that i have her even just in some form of complicated way. I know God will help us (especially me) to overcome this
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• United States
26 Jan 16
Very sweet of you! Hopefully everything works out between the both of you!
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
yeah! I hope EVERYTHING will work out between us. Just the two of us...
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@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
27 Jan 16
I want to "like" this post, but I'm too jealous... I need to find a nice man like you, only older. It's good that you have someone in your life who makes you feel happy. Hopefully you will get together soon if it is what is best for the both of you. Time will tell my friend. Sorry you have to wait though. The "waiting" part can be tough sometimes.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
"I want to "like" this post, but I'm too jealous... I need to find a nice man like you, only older." - finding your right match has no age limit. you can find yours even if your older now. on the other hand, you can find your match in the personality of younger ones hehe "It's good that you have someone in your life who makes you feel happy. Hopefully you will get together soon if it is what is best for the both of you. Time will tell my friend. " - Thank you very mush! I very much appreciate it! I'm really praying hard always that God hopefully destined us to be together and love each other. And yes, time will tell, haayst "Sorry you have to wait though. The "waiting" part can be tough sometimes." - the waiting part really sucks! you have no assurance. you are full of hope. and yet, you are feeling the pain every now and then.
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@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
27 Jan 16
@trivia79 Yes, the waiting is tough. Really hard. Do you have some sort of plan on how you two are going to get together? You need some kind of plan, you know. Sorry baby, but I'm going to have to disagree with you about the age thing. A "hook up" can be any age, but if you are really trying to be with the right match, then age matters somewhat. I have a 20 year old son, so I can't be with someone who is 25. Can't do it. Some women might be able to, I can't. Take my dad for instance, he has a girlfriend that is my age. Doesn't bother him one bit, I guess it's different for men though.
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
28 Jan 16
@HomeBase Plan? Hmmm... well, if your talking about going into a bf/gf relationship, it's way too long. that's for sure. I have to wait for her in two stages: her availability and her willingness to entertain me after the first stage. But if you mean by 'get together' is when we will see each other personally, i already told her last year that this year I'm going to their place. I have to save enough money first. But now we are living in year 2016, that plan of mine seems become blurred for this year but not definitely will vanish.
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@yalul070 (1713)
• Manila, Philippines
27 Jan 16
That's so sweet! But hmmm I wonder what that complex situation is...Could it be more complicated than Michael and Zane's
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@yalul070 (1713)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Jan 16
@trivia79 let me guess...so she's far away huh? and so did you two start out as chatmates?
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
haha. that's your story! i don't know if it's more complex than your story 'coz i don't know the complexity in your story. unless you told me that hehe
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
28 Jan 16
@yalul070 you got it right! partly... far away? check start out as chatmates? check
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@hiru84 (942)
• Malaysia
27 Jan 16
Wow, you are a great lover. You always try to make your sweet heart happy. Yes, it is love. That gift might be the best thing what you have, because many ladies got a huge happy from their lover's presents. Sometimes that present isn't expensive one, but it's a more valuable thing for ladies. I'm sure that lady get more happy from your gift and she might be loves you very much. Hope you can get a lovely lifetime. Good Luck..!
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@hiru84 (942)
• Malaysia
27 Jan 16
@trivia79 Wow, you love her very much and I know you will do anything for her. All the best my friend. Hope you can got her love soon and you can live in her heart forever. You can win her love soon. So try it and you know that every beginning is hard. "Love speaks even when the lips are closed."
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
@hiru84 oh my god! i was so enlightened with your comment! that's so amazing! I'm afraid with the word 'soon'. It has no assurance but full of hopes . But I still believe and trust God that He will destined us to be together
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
thank you very much! i very much appreciate it! "Yes, it is love. That gift might be the best thing what you have, because many ladies got a huge happy from their lover's presents. Sometimes that present isn't expensive one, but it's a more valuable thing for ladies." - i definitely agree with you with this one "...and she might be loves you very much" - I hope so . even though she's not vocal, i feel it in my heart that she do. she do loves me. Well, a 'thank you' from her is synonymous to 'i love you' for me. "Hope you can get a lovely lifetime" - ..with her.. "Good Luck..!" - i need best luck and God's ultimate blessing hehe
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
28 Jan 16
I don't give gifts to my love one; just calls everyday even if I am busy is already good to show her my feelings.
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
30 Jan 16
@trivia79 no, it is not a quick call. If I am not busy, I call her up and talk to her in several minutes to an hour, except when my cell hpone's battery gets drained, so I have to recharge it. But a day does not pass without me calling her.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
30 Jan 16
@Yar_Joey are you far away from her? is the one your talking about your wife?
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
28 Jan 16
I used to call her everyday before. But she's too busy sometimes that she can't answer her phone. Sometimes, i make so much missed calls. how long do you talk to your loved ones over the phone? just a quick call?
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@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
10 Apr 16
Good way to other person happy by showing your love to her.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
14 Apr 16
thank you for that! :)
• Philippines
26 Jan 16
That is so sweet of you to want to make your girl always happy.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
Because i love her! I really really love her!
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
@nottoooldtowrite thank you very much! i appreciate it. yah! i hope soon
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• Philippines
27 Jan 16
@trivia79 a hope things will be well with you two.
www...
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
1 Feb 16
I don't like her stopping saying she loves you.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
1 Feb 16
why did you say so?
@OreoBrownie (3755)
• Commerce, Georgia
27 Jan 16
That is a very nice thing you did for her. She will truly know your feelings. I wish you great happiness.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
Thank you very much! She already knew my feeling for her even before i started giving her gifts. I love her so much. great happiness? yeah! i hope so
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@jstory07 (134433)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Feb 16
I hope that she will be in your life soon. You are a nice guy to care about her.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
4 Feb 16
is it the right term? nice guy? even though i'm the one who's feeling the most pain? even though nobody comforts me but myself? even though i'm loving a woman even it really damn hurts? i considered myself a martyr!
@LeaPea2417 (36438)
• Toccoa, Georgia
27 Jan 16
That is very sweet that you bought that for her. Best wishes to you two for a good relationship.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
thank you very much! yes! what we have now is a relationship but not to the level of a bf/gf level yet. but still, i'm willing to wait
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@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
1 Feb 16
I hope you end up together
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
1 Feb 16
soon... hoping soon it will be
@paigea (35678)
• Canada
27 Jan 16
That sounds very sweet. I am sure she appreciates your gesture.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Jan 16
she did. and i'm happy with that. that's one of the ways on how i show my love for her even though we are very far from each other
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