Our Love Don’t Cost A Thing

@Raine38 (12257)
United States
January 26, 2016 8:03pm CST
I received a text message from the ex. And he said that he will be visiting my siblings next month, and he will take them for a trip to Thailand. I ignored the message and contacted my sister about the matter. She said yes, he asked them, but she told him that everyone is busy with work and school and that they will pass. He insisted on taking them out to dinner, or something. But my sister said that she will have to check first but chances are they will be busy. He never gives up. He thinks that money will bring back what he once had. And instead of endearing him to us, what he does is insult us. He will get the message eventually. Hopefully soon.
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Jan 16
some people think thathey can buy your love wh money and thats so pathetc mydad was l ike that too
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Jan 16
@Raine38 I would so have lov edf t tell my dad tat ikt mighthave registered do not knowj
Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
27 Jan 16
They can shove it up their you know, lol!
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Suranga Abeysekara
@hiru84 (942)
• Malaysia
27 Jan 16
Sometimes he might be like to treat your siblings and he find a way for it. Do you go there with your siblings and ex. ? It might be a nice trip.
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Jan 16
@Raine38 good lord I do not blame you love should never urt and so me women think thats love I told my hubby if he ever hit me e qa o ut of there and he would tease me b ut he never reallyhwouldf ht me as he lpved me unconditionly
Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
27 Jan 16
I never want to spend time with the ex anymore. Not after he hurt me physically and emotionally.
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Suranga Abeysekara
@hiru84 (942)
• Malaysia
27 Jan 16
@Raine38 Yes, he plays with your feelings. But why he choose your sister for it ?
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Heather Echola
@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
27 Jan 16
The song says "Money can't buy me love".
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Jan 16
thats so true and some people do not comprehend that at all.
Michelle
@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
27 Jan 16
I find it totally strange how your ex would want to take your siblings to Thailand? And why does he want to rekindle the relationship with your siblings so badly? Doesn't he have that insecure girlfriend of his that he needs to control?
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
27 Jan 16
Oh yes, the girlfriend is still in the picture. I guess it's his way of dealing with his guilt. But we have too much and too great of things going on for us to even stress about him.
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Michelle
@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
27 Jan 16
@Raine38 For him to stop annoying your family would be good enough!
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OtakuNerdyChica
@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
27 Jan 16
Dam. Why so persistent? Is he still with his girlfriend though who didn't trust him? (Sorry I am way behind...) He needs to get his own life and stay out of yours.
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
28 Jan 16
Yes, he's still with his girlfriend, I think. He just cannot stick with one woman to be with.
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OtakuNerdyChica
@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
29 Jan 16
@Raine38 Definitely can't commit and therefore not right for you. Sorry he won't leave your life.
peggy baker
@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
27 Jan 16
That has to be a hard one.
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alchemistrx
@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
27 Jan 16
Well, love don't cost a thing. If he wants to stop the guilt,he should apologize sincerely to the whole family.
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
28 Jan 16
That's the thing. He never admitted anything, he never apologized. Until now he thinks he did nothing wrong by having 6 different women during our marriage.
Dominique
@dodo19 (47050)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 Jan 16
Some people are like that, unfortunately. Some people believe that money can buy love, friendship, and such.
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
28 Jan 16
Money is important, but it certainly is not everything. I can earn money, but respect and trust cannot be earned back once broken.
bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Jan 16
so sad. sorry it has turned out so badly with your relationship.
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
28 Jan 16
It's okay, I have moved on.
Jaymie Suh
@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
27 Jan 16
He might actually trying to gain everybody's trust again by doing that. But if you don't want him back, I'm sure he's just wasting his efforts. Lol.
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
28 Jan 16
I cannot trust someone who had/have 6 different side-women. Never again.
cherigucchi
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
28 Jan 16
It makes me sad whenever I hear relationship which turned sour. I guess he would get the message soon that its finally over.
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
28 Jan 16
It is sad. The end of something that was once amazing (I thought) is always sad. But I draw the line when my well-being is on the line, as I am not the only one getting hurt, but as well as my loved ones.
Wendy789
@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
27 Jan 16
Ah well, sounds like you've done good leaving him
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peggy baker
@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
28 Jan 16
Hopefully, he will get the picture
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myLot Prince (LOL)
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
28 Jan 16
that's so odd! insisting what he wants despite of the excuse of being busy of your siblings. I think he has an evil plan haha
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
28 Jan 16
Who really knows how a mind of a womanizer and liar works.
scheng1
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
27 Jan 16
It is not love that does not cost a thing. It is dislike that does not cost a thing. If you really like him and admire him, I think you will take up his offer. As it is, when love turns to dislike, there is nothing that money can do.
paigea
@paigea (35678)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
Well, it sounds like you have moved on and that is a good place to be.