Only child knows nothing about rough housing

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Among us four siblings, I'm the only one who has a child. He basically grew up without any cousins or playmates his age. He spends most of his time playing computer games, watching documentaries, DIY videos on YT, reading his books, crafting or drawing anything on paper. He's basically a good kid. The only problem is he doesn't know anything about rough play. My eight-year-old wasn't allowed to play outside on the street because it is not as safe as it used to be so the only time he sees other kids is when he's at school. The kids in class are naturally rambunctious. They're good kids and they like playing with my son but sometimes his teachers would tell me that he cried again. It's the same thing over and over: he'll play with his classmates and next thing you know, he's being punched or kicked lightly. Not really being beaten up, just playful rough housing and my kid would assume that they like hurting him. I kept explaining to him that it's just what kids usually do and that he just needs to get used to those kinds of children. I firmly tell him so many times not to cry whenever something like that happens because crying doesn't solve anything. I should know, I was the same at his age: a sensitive crybaby and I cry when people talk about how chubby I was back then. My siblings are all men but they don't do rough housing at all. We all grew up in front of the computer so we didn't do much outdoorsy stuff since there's nothing much to do in our area anyway. They'd rather spend time watching anime together than play with him and I busy myself with earning what I can on the Internet. I had him enrolled for Taekwondo lessons late last year but he has to stop just when he was about to take a promotion test to get his yellow belt. I couldn't afford it anymore. It worries me so much that he'll get bullied one day and all he could do is cry. My younger brother was bullied a lot when he was in college and almost didn't graduate and I only found out about it when we already graduated. I could've defended him back then. I may be a crybaby when I was young but I grew up and got to the point that I don't have to take people's trash anymore and this also scares me because if someone hurts my child on purpose, I'm not going to be forgiving even if it's another child who hurt him.