Did You Ever Regret Having Married Your Spouse?

@salonga (27969)
Philippines
February 16, 2016 5:12am CST
A tearful friend told me that her biggest regret is having married her husband. She caught him again with another woman. Another friend is in the same boat for she found out she married a slothful, and irresponsible man who demands and eats a lot. I really feel so sad for them. On the other hand, I am so thankful that never have I regretted having married my man. How about you?
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@jstory07 (57031)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Feb 16
I am glad that I married my man . He is great to me and will do anything in his power for me.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
Wow, I can picture in my mind the beauty of your marriage.
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@LadyDuck (118326)
• Switzerland
16 Feb 16
What a sweet beautiful photo. I am happy with my husband I have never regretted having married him.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
it's my great joy to hear a happy wife like you.
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@rosekiss (30152)
• Eugene, Oregon
16 Feb 16
I am no longer married, as I was married for 35 years, and have been divorced for 8 years. I did love him very much, but not sure he felt the same way, as he is the one who wanted the divorce. i was devastated afterwards, but he really did me a favor, and now that I am single, I am not going to get married again, unless God puts one in my path that he wants me to marry. Being single really isn't all tha tbad, as I have lots of freedom, and that is important to me.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
I admire your decision to remain single after divorce and just put everything in God's hand. This is the reason why you are happily single. Congrats!
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@rosekiss (30152)
• Eugene, Oregon
17 Feb 16
@salonga It has been hard, and I have sturggeled, but no more, as God will provide and he will take care of my finances as well, of that I have no doubt. I don't know where I woud be without God.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@rosekiss I am so blessed to hear your testimony. God is good, those who seek Him, lack no good thing! Just keep trusting.
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@trivia79 (7945)
• El Segundo, California
17 Feb 16
I've never been settled and i will make sure i will not regret that stage of my life
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
Yes, that is one of the most important thing to assure when you are still single.
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@trivia79 (7945)
• El Segundo, California
17 Feb 16
@salonga maybe your friends are not that ready before, am i right?
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@trivia79 They did not scrutinize first their husband before marrying them. It is too late for them to know the true personalities of these men.
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@jaboUK (50127)
• United Kingdom
16 Feb 16
Like you, I am one of the lucky ones who have a good man. If a man were unfaithful I wouldn't stay with him for two minutes. Are both of your friends staying with their men?
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
I am happy you found a good husband too. Regarding my friends; The first have decided to separate while the other is still patiently living with her husband for the sake of the kids.
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@jaboUK (50127)
• United Kingdom
16 Feb 16
@salonga Thanks for telling me - obviously if children are involved things are a little more complicated.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
@jaboUK you are right.
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@wiLLmaH (8167)
• Singapore, Singapore
16 Feb 16
That is my greatest fear when I am single. But I can say, I am blessed for HE gave me this man. :)
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
Yes to have a good husband is a big, big blessing. I am happy for you.
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@wiLLmaH (8167)
• Singapore, Singapore
21 Feb 16
@salonga we are going for pur 5th year anniversary but until now we dot that have a big fight.
@TRBRocks420 (60819)
• Banks, Oregon
16 Feb 16
That's awful they should kick him to the curb lol.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
Given those kind of husband, i will surely do you suggestion.
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@1hopefulman (19569)
• Canada
16 Feb 16
I had two wives and they bot cheated on me but I have no regrets. They were both great women, cheating aside, and I had about 30 wonderful years.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
I admire that positive spirit of yours.
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@1hopefulman (19569)
• Canada
17 Feb 16
@salonga Some people think that I made a bad choice. I say that I made good choices both times but people change. Jesus prayed all night and chose Judas as one of his apostles. Later, he changed and betrayed him. Satan also served God for a time but changed and rebelled. We will always have a choice as to what we do or don't do.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@1hopefulman Certainly, this life is a series of choices, God has given us the free will to choose which is which.
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@SIMPLYD (74827)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
I may not have a perfect husband , but i am so happy and proud to be married to him .
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
There is no perfect husband just as there is no perfect wife but I admire you for being proud and happy with your husband already.
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@SIMPLYD (74827)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@salonga Actually , that how we should be with our husbands- proud . Though it's sad that for some they can never be proud of them .
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD once a wife can no longer talk proudly of her husband and vice versa, then there is something wrong and this can weaken the marriage.
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@Lucky15 (33714)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
Aww. Felt bad for them. Maybe i will take this a lesson for me. Haja
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
Yes my friend, don't rush into marriage, lest you regret. The right man will come along in due time just pray for him.
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@Lucky15 (33714)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
@salonga i ain't ma'am. Like i am in mid 30's and still..not married. Hahaha. Well.. sigh
@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
19 Feb 16
@Lucky15 my dear i have a friend who married at 45 and now living happily. So your time will come for sure.
@LeaPea2417 (14622)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 Feb 16
I don't regret marrying my husband. I know he was the right one for me to marry.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
I'm sure you have chosen the right man to marry. I am happy for you.
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@LeaPea2417 (14622)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 Feb 16
@salonga Thanks.
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@birjudanak (7166)
• India
17 Feb 16
you are right i am single but always fear that should i get good girl because its look very hard to fine right one in this crowd of people and 90 % people are not loyal for partner so i am worried now for it...........
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
You have to be very careful in choosing. What matters most is inner beauty not only the outside appearance.
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• India
17 Feb 16
@salonga yes you are right and therefor i not choose girl from face but inside beauty need as she clean from heart....
@kaka135 (13469)
• Malaysia
17 Feb 16
It's sad to hear or read that statement, but I am sure it's not from you even when I just read the title. I always think I am blessed to have met my husband. Though he is not a perfect man, I am not either, we are happily being together and supporting each other, and most importantly, we are learning and growing together. I am also glad that I have always been trusting him, even when we had long distance relationship for about 4 years. He is a trusted man. Hope your friends will find their way out of the sadness.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
I keep praying for them. You had a 4 year long distant relationship! I admire your relationship even more. Congrats for having a trustworthy husband. It is so hard for many couples to stay faithful to each other in such situation. I am happy to know you stood that test and still happy together.
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@kaka135 (13469)
• Malaysia
20 Feb 16
@salonga I guess the long distance relationship made us stronger. I always think I am really lucky to have my husband, as he really helped me to grow to be a better person, to be whom I want to be. Without him, I am definitely not the one I am today.
@brokenbee (7713)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
That's one of my fears in having a partner. I might end up not marrying at all. Hihihi
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
No, not all men are bad. If you will only read the comments below, majority are happy and thankful with their husbands. Just learn to not rush in marrying. You have to use your head and not just your heart and make sure you know him fully well before marrying.
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@brokenbee (7713)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@salonga oh, okay. Yes, I also agree that not all men are bad. My father and brother are good men and good husbands to my mother and sister in law.
@Scindhia (1981)
• Chennai, India
17 Feb 16
Your friends don't deserve such a rough life. My husband is a sweet guy and a perfect gentleman :)
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
How nice to hear that! I am happy for you.
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@Scindhia (1981)
• Chennai, India
17 Feb 16
@salonga I'm the impulsive one in the relationship. We are perfectly balanced.
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@sofssu (14742)
16 Feb 16
I am truly grateful that I found such a wonderful man to share my life with.. No regrets here.. only gratitude.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
Every good and perfect gift is from above and certainly your husband is one of those gifts by God. You are blessed!
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@sofssu (14742)
16 Feb 16
@salonga Well said , he is indeed a gift from God.
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@PainsOnSlate (19021)
• Canada
13 Apr 16
No regrets here. We loved each other when we were young and we're old now ans still in love..
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
13 Apr 16
How wonderful to hear such testimony of love.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
17 Feb 16
My husband and I have had some really hard times and some times I didn't know if our marriage could overcome those times, but it did. I don't regret marrying my husband, he is the perfect one for me. We have been together 12 years and I am so grateful God brought us together. I think some people rush into marriage before truly getting to know someone and that's why later on they have regrets. Also some people think with time the other person will change and it never happens-then they start to regret their decision to marry them.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
Rushing into marriage will most likely lead to failed marriage. I'm glad you don't regret having married your man. Marriage does have bad times not just good and that is the reality but for as long as you keep loving, faithful and patient with each others weaknesses and you keep praying for God's help. God will always keep you together.
@Ladypeace (2076)
• Singapore
17 Feb 16
That's nasty, unfortunately many people marry without thinking it through enough. It's abit like Russian roulette since people tend to present better sides of themselves in the initial stages.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
You are right. Many just rush into marriage without even scrutinizing thoroughly the kind of person they will marry.
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@iamshane487 (1177)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Feb 16
My mother was experiencing the way your friend's husband did long ago but he changed after that.
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@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
It's nice to know he changed. No woman deserves such misery.