How much Possesiveness in a relationship

Better relation without possesiveness
By divi
@divssri (990)
Bangalore, India
March 1, 2016 10:44pm CST
When you love someone you get so much possessive towards your lover one but one thing tell me is this good.I am not saying possive for anyone is bad but it should be up to a limit. If your possessiveness cross their limit it's really very dangerous. Due to this you start making boundation on your love. Every time you have doubt about your love. Due to more possessive you are in fear to loss of your lover one. When she talk with another person you get jealous but you should not do so .she also want to live her life you could not bound her to do anything. You should give a space.
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@MGjhaud (20749)
• Philippines
2 Mar 16
if one is possessive, i dont think the relationship will last. no matter how they try or love one another, it wont work. i have friends who separated last year because of too much possessiveness. to the point that the guy breaks things because of jealousy.
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@divssri (990)
• Bangalore, India
2 Mar 16
According to you possesiveness is good in relationship and it's not affect to relation.You want to say this.
@MGjhaud (20749)
• Philippines
2 Mar 16
@divssri too much of possessiveness is NOT good.
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@divssri (990)
• Bangalore, India
2 Mar 16
@MGjhaud yes too much possesiveness kills the relationship so everyone should control on it.
@sjvg1976 (18041)
• Delhi, India
2 Mar 16
Possessiveness is okay but over possession is not. Its happens with people they forget the limits. We must give our partner a space to live his/her life. Just to impose things you like on her/him is not life.
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@divssri (990)
• Bangalore, India
2 Mar 16
Exactly I am saying, how much love show to your partner but if you so possesiveness then all is waste.
@Sharon38 (1916)
• Jamaica
5 Aug 16
That is why trust and communication are important in a relationship. Trust the person to be faithful to you and if you are all children of God we should not have that issue. We have to learn to trust God that the one you are with will be faithful as you are faithful. When the jealousy kicks in speak with the partner and let them know how you feel. You will be surprised how much more confident you will feel after that, No relationship can work without God, trust, communication and respect.
@zarlamain (24531)
• United States
10 Jun 16
There must be some space in a relationship or the other person is bound to get tired of the relationship, and they'll break up.
@mavlana (1030)
• India
2 Mar 16
Possessiveness acts as poison in case of a relationship.If you over possess someone..it is totally wrong...it simply says that you are not in love..you are only in illusion as you are destroying the very individuality of a person by bounding him/her.