My friend asked me this afternoon and I thought about it. I thought well normally if say I break up with someone the first thing I do is delete them. I don't want them in my life. She wont delete her boyfriend because she wants to check up on him.
I told her even my last break up it was hard but to get over it. I had to cut ties, and I did. But she wont and I told her she will always be tempted to check on him. She needs to think of herself right now.