Feeling frustrated

March 6, 2016 2:10pm CST
So I'm been single now for 13 years by choice to raise my kids. Now that their older I'm trying to meet someone nice to start a loving relationship with but it seems all I keep meeting are liars and players. How do I learn to trust again and know they want the same thing as me. I've tried dating sites with no luck. I'm a good person with a big heart, just waiting to give it to someone
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@cherriefic (4708)
• Baguio, Philippines
6 Mar 16
Were on the same boat. Although it's just 5years since i have decided to raise my kids on my own. I'm not sure though if I will ever trust a guy again for a relationship though. Good luck!
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6 Mar 16
Thank-you I do believe in giving someone the benefit of the doubt
• Baguio, Philippines
6 Mar 16
@Italian123 You're welcome. I hope that someone better will come along for you soon...
@rina110383 (24095)
6 Mar 16
As they say, sometimes you find love in the most unexpected time and manner. I've been single since birth, with no child. I'm keeping my hopes high. I know I'll find a good man soon.
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@kevin1877uk (36966)
8 Mar 16
Its a hard one, I dislike dating websites myself although i've often thought of joining one.
8 Mar 16
Hey Kevin really do ur research before joining one
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@kevin1877uk (36966)
8 Mar 16
@Italian123 I joined one and then left, didn't like it one bit and won't be joining o0ne again, all the best with your search for someone, I'm to be on my own for some time to come.
9 Mar 16
@kevin1877uk that's a very good idea Kevin
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@ricki_911 (19570)
• Toronto, Ontario
9 Mar 16
I gave up trying and I am half your age lol.
9 Mar 16
Haha I'm not that old
@ricki_911 (19570)
• Toronto, Ontario
9 Mar 16
@dodo19 (33037)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 Mar 16
I'm really sorry you're having a hard time. I'm sure you'll find a nice guy in time. He's out there.
6 Mar 16
I really appreciate everyone's positivity
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@dodo19 (33037)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 Mar 16
@Italian123 I can understand. We all need it.
@kaka135 (14055)
• Malaysia
10 Mar 16
I am sorry to hear that. I always believe there is someone for everyone, we just haven't meet him or find him yet. Hope you'll find him soon.
11 Mar 16
Thank-you I'm sure he's out there somewhere
• United States
6 Mar 16
I hear you with choosing to be single, same here for the last 8 years since the break up of what I thought was a relationship that could endure anything--- but as you say liars and cheaters certainly do put a damper on 'is there anyone out there willing to take what I am willing to give with love and trust ? We'll get someone soon it is in our cards, I just feel it have a nice day and hello btw @Italian123
@sharon6345 (130825)
• United States
6 Mar 16
I was in your shoes an I been through hell and high water. I am sure that won't be the case for me in the future.