Know anyone who hates you badly?

March 11, 2016 1:25am CST
Its difficult for me at times to hold back when i am talking to someone or about someone else. Its just that i find some people frustrating to deal with. I dont know if this is a problem with me, which only i can solve or its just the way i am.. I know this woman, who i see everyday, albeit reluctantly, at the place where i work. I know she terribly hates me. She cant stand the sight of me. I am a guy who holds grudges for a long time, maybe forever. I am unforgiving. It doesnt feel good, to face her everyday, but we end up having few awkward conversations, mostly about work. Its funny. I seem to get into fights very easily. But its her fault too. The way she talks, pisses me off. Maybe she can try talking a little politely. Anyways. i would like to know if anyone else have good or bad experiences dealing with people who loathe you or you just know any person who hates you?
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@SIMPLYD (77450)
• Philippines
11 Mar 16
When i have a spat with somebody at the office , i see to it that after we both calmed down , we ask for apology . I also don't hold grudges . I feel stressed if i do .
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11 Mar 16
i feel stressed out too, making it very hard for me to concentrate. But i just wait for the other person to apologise first, but i know it wont happen because of their ego
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@SIMPLYD (77450)
• Philippines
11 Mar 16
@ComptonSheriff Sometimes time heals the wound . And if you see that they are softening , then maybe you are humble enough to talk or greet them as if nothing happened in the past . But if they don't greet back , then it's time to let go of them . At least you have done your part of trying to reach out .
@AkoPinay (11550)
• Philippines
11 Mar 16
Yes, and I know the reason is -- envy. First experience, I resigned. Second time, I fought. Third time, I ignored them.
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@Shavkat (54253)
• Philippines
11 Mar 16
@AkoPinay You can also add insecurity.
@alchemistrx (2577)
• Philippines
11 Mar 16
Well, i have encountered people like that. I just mellow down a bit.
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@Shavkat (54253)
• Philippines
11 Mar 16
I just ignore these people. I have this principle in life. If you hate me, the more I hate you. However, if it really bothers you then ask assistance from human resource department about your concern.
11 Mar 16
i have the same principle too. It doesnt bother me much, coz i try to ignore her and avoid her at all times. But somewhere at the back of my mind, this situation always pricks me. Maybe i overthink about unnecessary situations like this, which have no bearing on my life
@Sreekala (20423)
• India
11 Mar 16
I think we don't want to bother about the people who hate us. We have lot of people to love and care so why should we bother about such people. Honestly I don't know anyone hates me because I am busy with the people who love me.
• Calgary, Alberta
11 Mar 16
I always have a hater ever since I can remember and some of them are even members of my family.