Know anyone who hates you badly?
March 11, 2016 1:25am CST
Its difficult for me at times to hold back when i am talking to someone or about someone else. Its just that i find some people frustrating to deal with. I dont know if this is a problem with me, which only i can solve or its just the way i am.. I know this woman, who i see everyday, albeit reluctantly, at the place where i work. I know she terribly hates me. She cant stand the sight of me. I am a guy who holds grudges for a long time, maybe forever. I am unforgiving. It doesnt feel good, to face her everyday, but we end up having few awkward conversations, mostly about work. Its funny. I seem to get into fights very easily. But its her fault too. The way she talks, pisses me off. Maybe she can try talking a little politely. Anyways. i would like to know if anyone else have good or bad experiences dealing with people who loathe you or you just know any person who hates you?
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11 Mar 16
@ComptonSheriff Sometimes time heals the wound . And if you see that they are softening , then maybe you are humble enough to talk or greet them as if nothing happened in the past . But if they don't greet back , then it's time to let go of them . At least you have done your part of trying to reach out .
11 Mar 16
i have the same principle too. It doesnt bother me much, coz i try to ignore her and avoid her at all times. But somewhere at the back of my mind, this situation always pricks me. Maybe i overthink about unnecessary situations like this, which have no bearing on my life