Would you travel alone or in a group?

@sol_cee (38223)
Philippines
March 20, 2016 10:55pm CST
Who would say no to travelling? If given the chance, or the time, and the money, I’m sure everyone’s out of their house in just one snap. So when a friend invited me to visit a few famous World Heritage sites in Kyoto, I didn’t hesitate at all. I was imagining traditional Kyoto and its temples and geishas and delicious food in no time. As per the friend’s suggestion, we signed up on a bus tour which offered going to four different locations all in one day. It was my first time to join a bus tour loaded with tourists so I was filled with excitement. Being a night owl though, going to the meeting place at 8:00 am was troublesome. I was half awake when I got there, surprisingly, earlier than the others. THE OTHERS included a mother and son from Hong Kong, a grandparents-and-grandchildren combination from Malaysia, four female best friends from Taiwan, three lovely Chinese cousins hanging out with their grandmother and a lot more, summing it up to twenty. The tour guide was a middle-aged Japanese lady who sounded nervous when she answered queries in English as she was handing out the bus tour kit. I guess she was relieved to see my friend who pretended to be Chinese at first (to practice her English) if not for her Japanese name on the registration list. The bus was comfortable and clean; however we couldn’t choose where to sit as there was a specific seat plan. Friend gave me the window seat and I could enjoy the one hour drive spotting the difference between Osaka and Kyoto. Halfway through the trip, the noise level was raised to a maximum. Who could blame everyone’s excitement? Friend tried to take a nap but failed after a few attempts so we ended up chatting like the others. Upon every stop, we were given an hour and twenty minutes to explore and take selfie and then immediately head up to the bus. As the tour guide repeatedly said, failure to show up on time is not their problem. The bus will leave right on schedule. Threatening, yeah and kinda stiff but well, rule is rule. It was my first time to take a picture looking at my watch. Entrance tickets to the tourist spots were part of the bus tour fee so we were spared from the long queue. Standing up in line isn’t my cup of tea. Lunch, which was included on the fee, was buffet style Japanese cuisine. Bet the Chinese were looking for the oily stuff. So was me. At some point where we had to use the train to transfer to another location, waiting for the other tourists who were walking slowly and taking pictures every now and then was upsetting. Instead of being pissed off and raising tantrums, we befriended the Malaysian kids as they talked in halting English. Grandpa and grandma looked very proud. Almost to the last stop, it rained. Umbrellas were not part of the tour kit unfortunately. Of course I am a Girl Scout so I’m always ready. I would have loved to stay longer at every spot. But four cultural heritage sites with varying distance in one day couldn’t be possible. Nevertheless, Kyoto is fantastic.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 16
We always travel in group tours, especially when language is an issue, except for 4 trips to France.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
@DianneN I must be the most underprivileged. lol
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
Those 4 trips to France deserve an article.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
28 Mar 16
@sol_cee Hasn't everyone already been there?
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
22 Mar 16
One of the place i wanted to go..kyoto :)
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
To Kyoto you should go.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
@Lucky15 Japan is so lucky then.
@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
@sol_cee japan is my first outside the country thing :)
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
21 Mar 16
So that was an enjoyable trip for you! I would prefer traveling with my family otherwise i won't fully enjoy any place.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
The family that travels together takes selfie together.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
@sol_cee hahaha!
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
25 Apr 16
Thank you for including us on your trip. I think I would prefer traveling with a group, unless I was on a honeymoon.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
25 Apr 16
@sol_cee I was married twice and so it is easy to do the math. In case you are wondering, first marriage lasted 15 1/2 years and the second 13 1/2 and too afraid to go a third time, so far.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
@1hopefulman 1/2 is the common factor.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
How many honeymoons did you have? lol
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• Beijing, China
23 Mar 16
Travelling is often exciting, sometimes - especially if you're a business traveller - boring and, just occasionally, risky. But whether you're faced with excitement, tedium or danger, the presence of friends, family or colleagues acts as a buffer mechanism to help magnify your pleasures and insulate you from distress.I prefer travelling by myself ,or with my friends,just one or two,because it is easy for me to change my route and enjoy the time,,I like travelling very much,often with my friends and family
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• Beijing, China
23 Mar 16
@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
@Zhaoxiaoyue impressive..
@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
Wow! Your words are soo...
@Dextoi (1845)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
If I were to travel alone or in a group, I would not hesitate. I love to travel though I really can't afford much. I love to travel on a motorcycle but in a group though I tried to do that alone. It's amazing that you were able to travel to one of my dream places to go to. I really envy you!
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
@Dextoi First myLot pay out goes out to gasoline!
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
You can ride a motorcycle. I can't even balance. I envy you.
@Dextoi (1845)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
@sol_cee But I can only travel as far as the gasoline I can afford. Not to mention other expenses. hahaha...
@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
23 Mar 16
It sounds like a really good trip! I have heard that Kyoto is a really nice place to visit. I wish I'll be there one day. I'd prefer to travel with my husband, or someone I am really comfortable with. I don't really like to travel in a group, as there might be too many opinions or conflicts or just simply different interest. I don't mind traveling alone, as I enjoy having more freedom to go to where I want to go, and how much time to spend on one location. I like to go with my husband as we can be good partners when traveling, as we enjoy the same things.
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@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
3 Apr 16
@sol_cee I don't think I'd like to join that. I always like to visit places casually and flexibly, I don't think I'd like to follow someone's schedule, that's one of the reasons I don't like to go for a group tour.
@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
Why don't you join the Amazing Race?
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
It is nice to travel but being on a structured group tour is not always pleasant because you have to follow the time and all which is sometimes annoying if you want to explore more of the place and all.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
True. Had to check my watch for like 100 times!
@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
30 Mar 16
I prefer travelling with a group. Sounds like your trip was chock a block full out :). I am glad you enjoyed your time in Kyoto @sol_cee . :)
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
11 Apr 16
@sol_cee , I'm surprised there are no skyscrapers there. But, as long as you had fun, that is what counts :)
@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
11 Apr 16
There's never a skyscraper in Kyoto but it was fun still.
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@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Mar 16
Mmmmh i would love that,seems you really enjoyed
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
11 Apr 16
It was a great experience. Thanks!
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@just4him (305561)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Mar 16
It sounds like you had a good time on your bus tour.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
I did enjoy listening to the different languages being spoken. So like Tower of Babel.
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@just4him (305561)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Mar 16
@sol_cee That would be interesting.
@vickyrose (2235)
• Cooma, Australia
6 Apr 16
I had a JR Pass so I went to Kyoto for a day. It's a wonderful place and if I had more time, I would have done a 'geisha' dress up and walked around the pagoda. Next time and hope you're still there.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
6 Apr 16
Hey hey.. Glad to see you back.. You ignored Osaka.
• Canada
6 Apr 16
For me it kinda depends on a few things, like some trips are more introspective, and I prefer to be alone with my thoughts-but others I like to gain insights which a group setting can give:)
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
11 Apr 16
Just bring with you your selfie stick should you wanne be in an introspective trip.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
4 Apr 16
I know you were looking for "humba" ("hum" meaning home and "ba" meaning meat). Seriously though "ba" is meat in Chinese LOL! Meat from home hahaha!
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
11 Apr 16
Gimme gimme gimme humba!~~
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
11 Apr 16
@sol_cee DIY youtube for humba hahaha!
@marguicha (215189)
• Chile
28 Mar 16
I like to travel by myself (with friends or relatives) and take my time to see what I want to see. I prefer to see a few things but stay there until I no longer want to be there. I have been at museaums just to see a single painting.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
There's nothing to travelling at your own pace yeah?
@kataomoi (708)
• Japan
21 Mar 16
I prefer to travel with friends. I don't mind traveling alone, but my sense of direction is poor and I get lost easily. Plus it's a lot of fun to travel with friends or family and it saves money on lodging too.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
Dora the Explorer is better in navigation than me.
@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
23 Mar 16
I think I would much prefer to travel with a friend or family member than travel alone to a new place. Of course, that probably has a lot to do with my age.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
Totally agree!~
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
23 Mar 16
How exciting to be visiting Japan. That is on my visit list too!
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
Beautiful women, there are.
27 Mar 16
Travelling to Japan is one of the things in my bucketlist. Honestly, I regret not travelling when it were just only the two of us ( me and my husband) .
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
28 Mar 16
Why can't you bring your child?
@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
22 Mar 16
I prefer to travel in a group.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
Sure. The more, the merrier.
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