How long can one stick on to the person they truely love?May be "FOREVER"

Bangalore, India
March 25, 2016 1:11am CST
Why don't relationships last forever is it the time, is it the person ur with, is it the place ur in, is it the circumstances ur into, is it you ,me bla bla....end of the day is the relationship still sustaining all what life is throwing at us because once united by true love there is no separation. What happens when you don't find true love? By yourself be a true and honest lover that's the best one can do when you do that the positive vibrations sets in and the right person for you will surely find you. I wish all those who are like this all the best to find true love and stay happy healthy and wealthy till the end of time.
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@thesids (22453)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Mar 16
First, I fail to understand the what happens when you dont find true love. Love by itself, is always "being able to let go" - I forget the exact translation of the hindi proverb but that is what it means. The first and foremost thing that not many understand is that just as charity begins at home, similarly, true love begins with loving one's own self. If you love yourself, you will realize that love is something permanent. You automatically stop expecting the "return love" thing as you dont need it anymore - you start to accepting more than expecting - and that takes you places. It definitely reduces much clutter around. For me, I have been in love for years now. Not that ours is the ideal thing around, but then, there cannot be anything better just because I do not have many expectations. I have learned to accept and live. Oh, btw, what is your definition of true love?
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@sjvg1976 (15615)
• Delhi, India
25 Mar 16
Those who don't expect much are the most happiest person in life
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@thesids (22453)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Mar 16
@sjvg1976 to see you online this late! Yes, expectations are the big resources if you want troubles for you
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• Bangalore, India
26 Mar 16
@sjvg1976 every breath we take is with an expectation to live so it will never perish but we can set each others expectations right to avoid confusions and misunderstandings
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@LdeL0318 (6489)
• Philippines
25 Mar 16
I always believe in forever.
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• Bangalore, India
25 Mar 16
kudos to you
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@LdeL0318 (6489)
• Philippines
25 Mar 16
@AYUSHNATROYOGA It always depends on us. We make our own choices in life.
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• Bangalore, India
25 Mar 16
@LdeL0318 yes we are the creators of our own destiny
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@gofsey (1286)
• Madurai, India
26 Mar 16
Relationships are what we make of them. You have done well and you deserve the best.
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• Bangalore, India
8 Apr 16
you reap what you sow
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@gofsey (1286)
• Madurai, India
8 Apr 16
@AYUSHNATROYOGA Like a bird in the sky, we follow the way to our destiny.
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@vandana7 (57619)
• India
26 Mar 16
Amen...I wish the same to everybody here including you. Do you think our feelings will resonate?
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• Bangalore, India
8 Apr 16
YES IF WE WISH FOR IT IT WILL
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26 Mar 16
It can be 'Forever' but only when the other half chooses not to back out. What happens is that most of the times most of us are befooled by short-term attraction and start considering it as **true love**. I would rather define **true love** as "Everlasting commitment" as it does not knock on your door and run away . It stands there waiting for you to open your door and take it in with all your warmth. True love does not happen by chance. It's indeed a choice that sometimes either your heart makes and your mind agrees or your mind makes and heart agrees. It's indeed an agreement of your heart and mind that finally intimates your soul " hey, got your mate ;) ". What we feel sometimes induces the same feeling in other half instantly and sometimes it takes a little time to build it up. That is the base of all relationships and so is that of True love. Don't find true love . Just feel it within you! and you won't ever have to fret over the absence of love in your life. !! ^-^
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• Bangalore, India
8 Apr 16
NICELY SAID RAHUL
@shubhu3 (13980)
• New Delhi, India
2 Apr 16
I believe in this forever yet I have never been successful in finding a true love for myself yet I've been successful in being and getting the same friendship from my besties and I feel that is also a kind of true love. :)
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@sjvg1976 (15615)
• Delhi, India
25 Mar 16
It's not essential that if you are true and honest you will find the same person. I have seen many honest people being duped in name of love.
• Bangalore, India
26 Mar 16
but by being honest and true you don't have anything to loose as you have done your best and even when someone duped you you will be convinced that you were the good one among the two if not what makes you different from the person who duped you....life is not a bed of roses every failure is a lesson some lessons are hard to digest but that how life is...."Accept the pain" as Gowtham Buddha says.
@Jenning (2025)
• Nigeria
25 Oct 16
That's when that love leads to marriage. Sure it's a forever thing.