April 10, 2016 4:34am CST
Did you ever experience the emotional blackmailing? I'm very fool and people easily convince me by the sake of their emotion and some emotions are fake and only for show. Did you ever victim to it? if yes, then how you act? wisely or foolishly like me?
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11 Aug 16
@VivaLaDani13 Yep I agree that it's easier said than done. The thing is the people that have some kind of emotional power over us are the ones that emotionally blackmail us. lol Tricky thing to deal with! And exhausting *muttering to myself*
• Pamplona, Spain
Me I say me much like Shavkat have had people try to blackmail me too emotionally but I have chosen not to be their victim either. One such incidence has happened today like that and I do not want to be their blackmail victim. Of course I have been foolish too and given in. But that is a really long forgotten story.
• Zamboanga City, Philippines
10 Apr 16
• United Kingdom
It can be hard not to fall victim to such things. If someone physically hurts you, you know they've hurt you and you know it's wrong. If someone's being mentally abusive, it's much harder to tell. I suppose that, amongst the other forms of abuse, my ex most likely included emotional blackmail. Even after I'd left, he'd tell me he'd got no food or money. While I lived with him, he'd say he had no money and then he'd deliberately cause arguments until I gave in and gave him money to go to the pub (even though he'd already spent the best part of a month's wages there). I dealt with that by, firstly, recognising what it was and, secondly, by leaving him!