My Father's Work is Finished

@just4him (305965)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
April 10, 2016 3:36pm CST
My father lived a good long life. He was a hard worker. From my earliest recollection Dad always worked, whether it was with a company called the P.C. Monday Tea Co. where he had a route and delivered soups and Jello's to customers, in the same way salesmen go door to door, to working in a bakery, to his final job he held for many years until his retirement at the Four Wheel Drive, painting trucks. Trucks that saw front line action in World War II. My dad was also heavy into politics. He was a Democrat and decried the fact I'm not. There would always be heated conversation regarding politics, whether it was with his father, in which grandma would halt the argument and restore peace to her home, or anyone who would lend him their ears to hear his thoughts on why the Democrats were the best party for our country. My dad was also a devout Christian. I am convinced of that. Lately it seemed all he did was talk about how important going to church and having faith was. When it comes to sports there are two teams that stand out. He loved the Cubs and was looking forward to going to a game later this month. Sadly he won't be going. He also loved the Packers. He could hold hours long discussion on both baseball and football. I think he also enjoyed NASCAR, but that one I didn't hear much about from him. Dad was a family man. He was always home and took care of his family to the best of his ability, which gave fruit to his work ethic. He married Mom August 30, 1952 and then the children started coming along. Me in 1953, my late brother in 1954, my sister in 1956, and my youngest brother in 1963. They were married 63 years this past August. Dad also had a few hobbies he enjoyed immensely. Gardening - I do not get my green thumb from him. We had a garden the whole time I was growing up. I never had a store bought vegetable until I left home and found out those things in cans are horrible. I still wish I could garden. My dad also loved to fish and camp. Every year from the moment I was born, he would haul the family to the north woods, set up camp, and spend the entire time in the middle of the lake fishing. It was a good thing Mom enjoyed camping and fishing. Again, I never ate a store bought fish until I left home. Huge difference between fresh caught and store bought. As much as my dad loved camping, I hate it. It rained every year and sleeping on the ground in a tent is not comfortable in the rain with nothing to do while your father is in the middle of the lake fishing, rain or shine, which in most cases was rain. Dad was born on June 16, 1931 and would have been 85 this year. My dad was a lot of things - opinionated and stubborn being two everyone is familiar with. However, Dad was honest. He loved life and gave it his all. Today, he entered eternity where I know he heard 'Well done, good and faithful servant.' He is reunited with his parents, sister, Mom, and my brother, next to me in age who passed on Father's Day, two years ago. Dad had some faults, but these are his strengths. And now his work on earth is finished. Thanks for reading. Image mine, taken at my brother's house this past Christmas - playing with their dog. He also loved dogs and we had one most of the time I was growing up and even until a couple years before they ended up in an assisted living home.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
10 Apr 16
Very nice eulogy, Valerie! My condolences to you and your family.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you DE. They are much appreciated.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
11 Apr 16
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
10 Apr 16
A lot like my Dad very opinionated and stubborn and you didn't cross him on his opinions. Over all that is a great tribute.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
13 Apr 16
My dad was the same way. So very stubborn and had an opinion on everything.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Apr 16
@ramapo17 Yes, that describes my dad.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you. I think it was the time they came from. Everyone I know from his time period are hard-working and have good work ethics. They're also very stubborn and opinionated.
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@DWDavis (25812)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
10 Apr 16
You have written a moving tribute to your father. He sounds like a man it would have been an honor to know.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
He was a good man.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Apr 16
My heartfelt CONDOLENCE Valerie.It's not easy to be in deep sorrow.May your dad rest in peace.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Apr 16
@just4him , I am so sure of that for being prayerful and strong believer of the Lord.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
He's with Jesus. He's at peace.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
11 Apr 16
He lived a good long life with a loving family. Have peace knowing he is in a better place.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Apr 16
Thank you. I think after this week is over it will start to sink in that he's gone.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
12 Apr 16
@just4him Yes, it will sink in but you will feel his presence around you for a long time like I did for my dad. I still feel him here sometimes even though he has been gone almost 3 years now. There is not a day that goes by that I don't feel him near me and I usually talk to him.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Apr 16
@ramapo17 I'm sorry for your loss. It sounds like you were very close to your dad.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
11 Apr 16
i was just teary ma'am. i can feel what you re feeling
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you. It's been a rough day.
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@GardenGerty (157546)
• United States
11 Apr 16
I am sorry for your loss but rejoicing that he has rejoined your mom. You have written a spectacular piece about him.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you. Once I started it just poured forth.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
10 Apr 16
You had a wondrful father who was a family man and honest person. May he be in Gods loving arms now .RIP
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Apr 16
@just4him I am sure he is. May God be with you and your family at this time.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
@Marcyaz Thank you.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
I am certain he is in God's loving arms.
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
10 Apr 16
I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad,may he rest in peace, sounds like he was a wonderful man and you have lovely memories. My condolences to you and your family.
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
11 Apr 16
@just4him I know how hard that is, but he is with God.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you @mommaj. He's at peace. He's with my mom and brother as well as his parents and sister.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
@mommaj Yes he is. Thank you.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
11 Apr 16
This is a nice tribute to your dad.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you. He was a good man.
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@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
10 Apr 16
Your dad was a good provider as well as a great father
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Yes he was.
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• Vancouver, Washington
13 Apr 16
@just4him His family is what meant the most for him
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• Canada
11 Apr 16
I am very sorry for your loss-and yet, we are not those who mourn as having no Hope, because He lives our Hope lives as well. We here mourn, but he has seen the Son of God:).
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Yes he has. Thank you for your sentiments. They are appreciated.
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@JudyEv (325654)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Apr 16
This is a lovely tribute to your father. I'm sorry for your loss. You had a wonderful role model and I'm sure you will miss him terribly.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you. He was a good role model in many ways and yes, he will be missed.
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
11 Apr 16
I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. What a lovely tribute to him.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Apr 16
Thank you. He was a good man.
@allknowing (130066)
• India
10 Apr 16
That was a great read. Showed how much involved you were with your dear father. I offer you and your family my condolences. May his soul rest in peace.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you very much. He's at peace now.
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@jstory07 (134426)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Apr 16
Your dad sounds like a great person and he led a good life. Sorry for your loss.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you. He did have a good life.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
10 Apr 16
Dear Valerie, I couldn't help but shed some tears reading this beautiful story describing your Dad. He sounds like a great Dad and I am glad that he was always there for his family. My sympathies to you and your family.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you. I appreciate it.
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@akalinus (40440)
• United States
10 Apr 16
Your dad was a blessing in your life and to all who knew him.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
Thank you. He was a good man.
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@TheHorse (205637)
• Walnut Creek, California
10 Apr 16
Sorry to hear of your loss. But it sounds like he lived an excellent life.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
It was a good life.
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@rhymeblue (130)
• Philippines
10 Apr 16
Wonderful tribute, I can feel the love of the daughter to the father here. God bless his soul.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Apr 16
I am certain he's in heaven.
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