Why girlfriend and boyfriend are possessive in relationship

By Oshi
@oshi2388 (206)
India
April 12, 2016 11:06am CST
I also faced a situation earlier in my life when I was in relationship my boyfriend was very possessive about me and some time I feel that he is rude. If I talk to someone why you are talking with them, I got frustrated and end up that relationship . I analyse that it is not with me it happen with me it happen with so many relationship where possessiveness become problem in relationship
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@quantum2020 (10035)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
12 Apr 16
The act of possession should pertain to posses material things not someoneĀ“s individuality!
@oshi2388 (206)
• India
12 Apr 16
It will not be done forcefully
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@quantum2020 (10035)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
12 Apr 16
@oshi2388 That is true! And the approach should be respected among the parties!
@carebear29 (28834)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
12 Apr 16
My husband thinks he owns me just because we are married but I keep telling him he don't
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@oshi2388 (206)
• India
12 Apr 16
You are doing right mam, I will be happy if you convinced them
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Apr 16
I know a couple right now where the husband is very controlling and jealous. It has not worked out well for them either. When someone is like that they will not have any successful relationships.
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@oshi2388 (206)
• India
12 Apr 16
The main problem is that men want to control women which is not good
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Apr 16
@oshi2388 Not all of them-just the WRONG ones!
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@avi256 (4386)
• Pune, India
21 Apr 16
@oshi2388 In some cases vice versa also holds true.
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@grvdubey11 (1882)
• India
13 Apr 16
Possessiveness can be due to several factors. Sometimes you treasure your relationship so much that you cant tolerate the idea if it being ended so you overreact.In such cases possessiveness is decreased as relationship settles down with time. However in other cases people try to control life of their partner, such people are evil and dangerous, its better to stay way from them.
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@avi256 (4386)
• Pune, India
21 Apr 16
I cant agree with you more.
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@Teep11 (7197)
• United States
12 Apr 16
Being to possessive can make one run in the other direction. It demonstrates insecurity. It's not healthy.
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@oshi2388 (206)
• India
12 Apr 16
It's destroy relationsh and relationship goes to wrong direction
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@karjatwala (1130)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 16
It cannot be true if it is done forcefully. Love should be from within.
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@avi256 (4386)
• Pune, India
21 Apr 16
I think with some people graph goes like this..friendship--love--possessiveness--obsessiveness--madness. Its high time people start treating their partners as individuals rather than their own property.